¡Hive's SmallTalk pandemic! ...it's my MeMe #112

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«What I believe naive & inexperienced youngsters think about SmallTalk»

¿Connections?

Small talk, despite often being perceived as pointless, plays a crucial role in social interaction and building relationships. While it may seem superficial, it serves as a necessary bridge to deeper connections by establishing common ground and demonstrating social ease.

Here's why small talk isn't as useless as it seems:

  • Facilitates connection:
    Small talk helps initiate conversations and build rapport with new people, potentially leading to more meaningful interactions.
  • Reduces social awkwardness:
    By providing a neutral topic, small talk helps ease tension and make social situations less intimidating, particularly for those who are introverted or anxious.
  • Reveals common interests:
    Even seemingly mundane topics can reveal shared interests or experiences that can spark more engaging conversations.
  • Acts as a social lubricant:
    Small talk can help navigate social situations, like networking events or chance encounters, by providing a way to acknowledge others and initiate interaction.
  • Builds social skills:
    Engaging in small talk helps individuals practice social skills like active listening, empathy, and adapting to different communication styles.
  • Provides a foundation for deeper conversations:
    While small talk itself may not be deeply meaningful, it can pave the way for more significant discussions by establishing a sense of trust and comfort.

In essence, small talk is a valuable tool for building social capital and fostering connections, even if it doesn't always feel profound in the moment.

Oh yeah, but you know what? perhaps it's simply that I must already be too old and I'm too experienced treasuring so many scars, that nowadays I'm unable to initiate or tolerate smalltalk anymore, right? Ok, well, keep reading and find out how old-fashioned I am?

Narrator: Well, what do you want me to do? You just want me to hit you?
Tyler Durden: C'mon, do me this one favor.
Narrator: Why?
Tyler Durden: Why? I don't know why; I don't know. Never been in a fight. You?
Narrator: No, but that's a good thing.
Tyler Durden: No, it is not. How much can you know about yourself, you've never been in a fight? I don't wanna die without any scars. So come on; hit me before I lose my nerve.
Narrator: This is crazy!
Tyler Durden: So go crazy. Let 'er rip.
Narrator: I don't know about this.
Tyler Durden: I don't either. Who gives a shit? No one's watching. What do you care?
Narrator: Whoa, wait, this is crazy. You want me to hit you?
Tyler Durden: That's right.
Narrator: What, like in the face?
Tyler Durden: Surprise me.
Narrator: This is so fucking stupid...
[Narrator swings, connects against Tyler's head]
Tyler Durden: Motherfucker! You hit me in the ear!
Narrator: Well, Jesus, I'm sorry.
Tyler Durden: Ow, Christ... why the ear, man?
Narrator: Guess I fucked it up...
Tyler Durden: No, that was perfect!

"So, while more you SHARE believing it will bring you closer to others, what really happens is that it distances you more from yourself"



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Haha, love the "People Pleasers" image! Burn rewards paying curators is a wild take 😂🔥

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Haha, love the "People Pleasers" image!

LoL yeah, there are plenty of them to love everywhere. But over here, many more each day!

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There's people that need it before interaction and business. It also depends on the country.

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Well, if the issue is about "need" of interaction and, above all, business... then why not get straight to the point instead of beating around the bush?

Around The Bush

It also depends on the country.

Yeah, probably. Definitely, there are countries where bushes are more abundant and therefore the people there prefer beating around the bush first.

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