MOTIVATION CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER

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Motivation may be overrated sometimes, but there truly are times when certain situations happen to us call for it. There are times when we just want to lie down in bed doing nothing feeling uninspired and unmotivated. We sometimes need that extra push to make a life-changing decision.

An extra push can make us want to stand upright and push forward. The push might come from a motivational post on social media, a story from someone, watching a movie, or even a reading from books.

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I have felt so unmotivated numerous times in my life and I didn't just want to do anything just stay indoors and be in bed all day but there is this particular day that changed everything for me, I won't forget such in a hurry.

Back then, when I was trying to get admission into the university after secondary school, I wrote J. A. M . B. three consecutive times, wrote post U. M. E., and the school wasn't offering me the course I wanted to study. I was getting the likes of C. R. S., Linguistics, and French when I wanted to study fine and applied arts. I reached the cut-off mark though so I don't know what happened. My Nigerian people will understand they do this in most universities.

At this point, I was already getting frustrated, feeling unmotivated that any course I got this fourth time of writing J. A. M. B and post-U. M. E. Again I will just take it, especially when I know that most of my classmates are already in the university and I was still at home.

I was so uninspired that I wasn't even reading or going to any examination classes because I was fed up already. I met a guy at the office where I bought my form I couldn't believe it when he told me that this exam would be his sixth and that he was not giving up anytime soon because he wanted to study medicine and they kept giving him those science related courses and he kept rejecting them like I was doing, taking J.A.M.B again hoping to land his dream course.

Well, I told him that I had given up already and that I'd take
any course given to me this time. He told me a lot of soul-lifting words that this examination might just be the deal breaker and that I shouldn't lose hope just like that. Then he made a quote and I can still remember it today
"Don't give up now, you've come too far!". And I pondered on his words when I got home

He motivated me on that particular day, His story lifted my spirit and I decided to stand up. That little story motivated and ignited a fire within me pushed me to take action and brought me to where I am today a proud graphic artist.

It is important to note that sometimes, motivation is not something we rely solely on external sources. We can not always wait for something or someone to push us. We just have to push ourselves to get to our destination.



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There are many times that I also don't want to get up or do anything but I just have to,so that I achieve something of myself. Well done

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Thank you
You just have to push ourself to achieve a goal because its not every time someone will push us.

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There are times when things don't just work the way we expect. I have a friend who wrote jamb 5 consecutive times looking for medicine and surgery but didn't get. I have to advice to change course and institution for dental, at first she was relentless but telling her the disadvantage of her writing jamb every year just to get medicine isn't working for her. Well at the end she changed and got merit admission into dental.

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Wow!
It wasn't easy I just had to try one more time.. Though I didn't change my course, I was ready for any course they would give me even if it was the most stupid course😂😂😂

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Sometimes, all it takes is a shoulder to lean on. It was perfectly normal for you to feel discouraged and even wanted to give up at some point; you had been through quite a lot. But, then, you sure would have never seen the end of it—which is becoming who you are now—if you hadn't kept going, despite how far you came. Thankfully, you met such an inspiring person, who even had it worse than you but was still willing to go on, and he carried you along.

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Yeah.. Very much just imagine if I hadn't met him maybe the decision I would have taken would be drastic. Sometimes, we just can't do life alone
Thanks for reading💕

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That person you met gave you a unique word that changed your mentality and thus became a great motivation to you. Indeed, we just need extra push sometimes. Thanks for sharing

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it's important to motivate yourself with whatever, whether it's getting involved with people, having a nice environment, reading good books or watching TV shows, it all depends on how open your mind is to receive that advice.

#dreemerforlife

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Yes, dear. Each has a way of motivating us at some point in life
The mind matters too
Thanks for stopping by.

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There are certain people. who just motivates us to keep going, you are so fortunate to have this guy who gave you a push to keep going and thank God you didn't give up.

#dreemport

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Fortunately, it was my first time meeting him
Thanks for stopping by.

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We all need motivation to keep moving in life. It's not everyday that we will be strong, it's not everyday that we will be full of energy. Sometimes things get so tough and only the voice of that person who seems to understands your predicament that keeps saying ride on, can keep you going

#dreemerforlife #dreemport

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Yeah. But sometimes if it doesn't come from an external source, we have to push ourselves.
Thanks for stopping by.

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Its very true..

You are welcome 🤗

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Wow, so how are you doing now? I hope you haven't given up like he advised you not to? That is why it is good to say kind words to people every day. You do not know how far the kind words would go to push someone further. I am glad someone moved you to stay positive. May God help you in all your endeavors.
#dreemerforlife

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Amen!
Am doing alright
Thanks for stopping by.

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