Being Kind To Myself

I know that when things doesn't go as planned, it very easy to be hard on ourselves, especially when our goals are not archived the first person I blame is myself. But now I have realized that this doesn't help me at all rather it only makes the journey heavier for me.

But you see this year I have learnt my lesson, I am learning to be kinder to myself, we know that kindness means accepting that I won't always get everything right as I planned it. So this year I have planned to allow myself to rest without feeling guilty and now I have understand that growth takes time so is not something I will rush or treat myself badly so 8 have to take it easy on myself.

But now am learning now to celebrate my wins no matter how little it is, even when they are insignificant as far as they are siltill my progress I will celebrate it. So let try and celebrate our progress no matter how small it's it will motivate us and also not to be tough in ourselves this year

But don't think that as am going easy on myself so it means now that am giving up lol please don't think like that. So going easy on myself doesn't mean that am giving up rather it means am choosing patience over pressure and also am choosing compassion over self-criticism. And I will also be choosing consistency over procrastination.

Yes because consistency builds the life I want in the long run so it doesn't require perfection.so I will be showing up everyday no matter how little it is. Sometimes someday I moves fast and somedays I move slowly but being consistent reminds me that my progress is still progress so I don't need to kill myself even if it didn't workout the way I wanted it,so being consistent shows that am kinder to myself, also trusting the process and believing my small efforts will eventually lead to big results so I don't need to rush.

So when I treat myself with kindness, I feel lighter, more hopeful and more motivated. So this year even if I didn't archive all the things I need, I will be kind to myself and celebrate the wins I got this year. This year is not the year to overstressed myself.

And sometimes, the kindness we are looking for from others is the same kindness we need to give ourselves so let just try and be kind to ourselves no matter how the situation may be.

Thanks to you all for stopping by I really appreciate @ozibaby really loves you all, hoping to see you guys in the next #contest.