RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #69- “TRUST ISSUES”
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Good afternoon, my country people, I done come back. Una, well done, ooooo!
Pour small palm wine on the floor to appease the gods, clear throat, and then take a sip.
Ehhhhh!
This question has been long debated; some are for it, while some are against it.For me, I will never ever allow my partner to keep a bestie of the opposite sex. This is not because I am insecure or for whatsoever reason people may say.
I just feel some things are common sense; the moment you are in a serious relationship, then there should be boundaries.
Before I got married, all my friends were guys; I had a best friend amongst them, and I had just one female friend. While I and my husband were dating, he knew about them all, and I also knew his bestie; neither of us told anyone anything about setting boundaries with our besties. On our own, we started doing it. After we got married, our besties limited the way they communicated with us, and that's because they also have common sense. I am still cool with my bestie, but he already knows I am no longer his bestie because my husband is now my bestie. The same also with my husband.
If your partner cannot be your bestie, then why be with them in the first place?
The second question will not even work. Why sleep over, please? If you are stranded, lodge at the hotel or sleep under the bridge, biko.
It's not me that will use my hand and invite the devil into my relationship/marriage.
The Bible says, What God has joined together, let no man put asunder. A bestie is already an asunder.
@beckyroyal @jmis101 @uniquezee @lecia89 @funshee make una come chuk mouth for this matter ooo
As in e, what you don't intend to eat why bring it close to the mouth ? What is the bestie what to bestie that I can not bestie 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
I'm 💯 with you on this one.
Me that I am 100 yards bestie 😂
What will bestie do that I can't do, biko make everybody rest
Haha, they should all rest jare 🤣
😂😂😂😂
Hahaha 😀 I can even do the bestie to the last core in me. So why another bestie? 😃
Hehe, yes o, we can be the best of besties 🤣
Why are we appeasing the gods?😂😂😂
So that they will be happy with what we are discussing, you don't want them to get angry and send thunder to us, reason being that this generation has split everything, during their time there was no bestie 😂😂😂😂
Don't mind the rubbish I just typed 🤣🤣
I have appeased the gods with kola and malt.
The gods bless you 🤗
I agree with you oo.
A bestie is an asunder.😂😂
A serious one that needs to be dealt with 😂
Haha.
How is your evening going btw?
Boring, everywhere is just dark and quiet. we have not had light since yesterday and I have a lot of work to do on my system, so I am just there 😞
You have spoken well. We the elders are proud of you. Make everybody just dy their dy. To avoid unnecessary stories
Who be the elder, you? 😂
Hahaha, bestie keh, I can't allow my partner keep anything abeg.. sleep where😂😂 the thing dey make me laugh sef.. Omo.. make I no talk sha
Lol 😂😂😂
Talk ooo.
Wow. Interesting piece. Common sense is needed and then setting the boundaries. Some people are just so wicked that even when they see you are married, they still want to be glued to this so called besties. Maka why? I no want that level. Lol
Lol 😂
Seriously some people are just too wicked
"I WILL NEVER!...DO SUCH A THING!!!"