EXCUSE ME

Hello beautiful people. Ex or 'exes' is the reason why some relationships are not working. I do not know what some of you are doing with your ex now that you're in another relationship or married. I don't o. You were once in love with this person and probably had sex with them and you do not see anything wrong still being in contact with such persons? There's a saying that true love does not die. Whatever that means, I somewhat believe it.

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It's impossible not to reignite the feelings you had for each other in the past. Except you were just deceiving yourselves then. If what you shared was deep and sincere, memories will be brought back. This exactly was how some people fell into adultery in marriage - reconnecting with their exes in the name of just keeping friendship. This person is different from a lady you asked out or a guy you turned down. Friendship can still continue in this case if both parties want it.

The case of keeping your ex as your best friend is what I can't comprehend. Your heart is made of flesh not stones. It's the Holy Spirit who helps us regulate our feelings. It's not wise to put yourself in situations that could easily make you fall into what you didn't plan for. Some are married but won't stop talking with their exes. One month in marriage, your spouse is already complaining about your ex. Why didn't you kuku marry that ex if he/she was better than your partner?

Some of you dating/courting too, your ex is the reason you're not enjoying your relationship. You shouldn't have left the relationship nau. Proverbs 4:23 says we should guard our heart with all diligence because out of it flows the issues of life. This scripture implies that whatever we allow into our hearts, if not examined and evaluated properly, will undoubtedly be expressed in our lives and our action - in positive or negative ways.