DEFINITION FIRST

Hello beautiful people. Always ensure that the relationship is defined. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is definitely inevitable. Stop striking relationships on mere aroused emotions and butterflies,

9 out of 10 of every nice guy you meet is liable to sweep you off your feet. Every average man has all the potential to get you all loved up and fantasizing about love,
Men has this power,

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But then, if you allow yourself to be edible by every man with this power, then quite a lot of men are gonna eat you in life, But, there's a way to distinguish between men who just knows how to get you in love, and men who are committed to love.

A defined relationship not only saves you from being harvested by mere hungry men with sweet tongues, it also establishes a foundation on which all the standards of your relationship is built. When a relationship is defined, laws are created by default,

Dos and Don'ts sets themselves,

Criterias are properly and rightly aligned,

It becomes easy for you to realise when you're no longer in agreement,

A defined relationship creates a common goal which is only achievable by a commensurate input of efforts, recourses and commitment,

When a relationship is defined, you cannot be used or deceived, because you already knows the efforts required of your man for the actual intent of the relationship, because it was defined.

An undefined relationship makes you vulnerable for all men,

It creates a possibility of heartbreak and disappoinment,

It makes it easy for anyone to get into your legs, because there was no defined agreement that forbids him from such,

Undefined relationships keeps you in dating, longer than you deserve,

Undefined relationships propels unwanted pregnancy, abortions, gross sexual sin and fornication,

Undefined relationships gives a man undefined access to your body for sexual abuse,

Undefined relationships permits years of numerous sex of all kinds and all styles and in all places and at all times,

Undefined relationships brings you a long way into dating without an actual sense of understanding of what you're doing.

"What do you take me for?"
"What are we to each other?"
"What am I to you?"
"What are we doing?"

These are questions you see yourself asking, when you fail to define your relationships.

Many people have this belief that there is a "someone special" made for them.

That is, if you don't get married to this person, your life will be ruined. But as you continue to pass through life and garner relationship experiences, you will discover that that belief is not entirely true.

To start with these questions:- Now, If you want to end up with a particular person and this person declines your love/proposal, what will you do? Will you force/impose love on someone who doesn't feel the way you feel for them? Or do you hang on to someone because you believe he/she is the "Will of God" for you?

To be honest, you can always meet and connect with another person, if you put your mind to it. You can find someone who will love you the way you love them, who will treat you with the respect you deserve and someone who will commit to you for a marriage bound relationship.