LOVE OR MONEY

Marriage is a thing of joy and the length of celebration goes with the strength of the man You choose,or ending with. As important as marrying into wealth is love is important but in Africa Nigeria where I’m from you see mothers and families pushing there girl child to marry for money as greedy as this may be or sound I believe is the families looking out for her.In Nigeria u get to a certain age where a lot is expected from you both the immediate family’s as well as the extended ones begins to point out peers of yours who are married,and how they are married into wealth.
In a Niger home here in Africa marriage is almost like a duty for the girl child that must be obeyed only a few family let there girl child pick who when and how there want to be married.
A one sided marriage I believe is a call to doom one sided I mean by if one marry for something or the benefits alone what happens when that benefit is no more.
Wealthy marriage this days in Nigeria seems more like An agreement most lady’s marry into wealth not thinking of the pain of not be love you would begin to hear things like I would rather cry in a designer’s store than marrying as a happy poor trader.
There is alway a reason one dose what they do and what ever it may be that includes marriage
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people decides if it will be for love,money,looks or style.Everyone has there mind made up on something if I was to choose I would choose both because I believe they both work hand in hand if we as humans would be truthful to ourselves we would all want to be loved while we are comfortable.
Why not make a pick one would ask well like I say one dose not work without the other I would want to be loved while being very comfortable but that those not mean I would want to sit home all day and be lazy.
A marriage of just love as beautiful as it may be without plan and hard work Is slowly headed for doom.
Child born in homes without the basic being available would learn to face life head on.A poor family with love doesn’t mean would bring forth wayward child but a marriage without money or wealth so to say will bring forth children that would be forced to grow faster than they should or even faster than expected because they would need to help out with bills around the house.

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Marriage is for better for worst so picking love still play a huge role in a very successful and happy marriage and an environment to bring up happy healthy and well mannered children.yes emphasis on children because I believe what ever choice we make as wives or husbands in the nearest future will make or brake the future of the yet unborn children.
In Nigeria where the rich are getting richer and the poor getting poorer I would say I understand why young lady’s do away with love for money all to uproot there families from being among the poor getting poorer root there are from.