Good day everyone, welcome to My Blog ❤️,
Compliments of the season to you all, i hope you are enjoying this festive season just as i am also enjoying it from this side.
We are in a season of Love and clebration, Christmas and New year.
Honestly sometimes you think so much on what you can do to show love to people, it might look like a difficult task but it so much easy.
I never know the prompt topic will be this, surprisingly it was what happened this morning i will share to us.
So i have a brother and Friend, although we are not blood related, He is Older than me and He is married with four kids. We got to know eachother in church, that was way back as four years ago when i came to Benue State for service.
He is into Orange Business, He does middleman most of the time. If there is another Word that can be used to describe Hardworking individual, he actually fitted for it. He is well known among his fellow Business people but there was a big draw back, He never really have much to show for it.
He Bought a J5 Model of Carriage Bus, for transporting Goods from Benue to Other states, when He brought the Vehicle i was so Happy For Him. This is a big achievement only for him to sell the Vehicle 4 months later because of the Vehicle faulty nature.
Just after selling the Vehicle, He Ventured into a business he didn't know much about and also that money ended up with the Scammers. He tried all his best to recover the Money back, all the efforts was in vain.
After morning service, which is usually called **covenant Hours of Prayer** in Living faith Church Worldwide.
We had an heartfelt conversation together. He was recounting all the unfortunate events that happened to him overtime. I can see frustration and disappointment all over his eyes. He told me, He is so sick and Tired of Everything.
I advised Him to these simple things:
I told him to find peace with his wife, that he should find way to reconcile all his Difference with her, they have been really a lot of fights and Disagreement between Him and his wife for long time now, they haven't been speaking to each other even though they were staying together. His wife warned him not to engage in that business that lead to loss but he didn't heed to his wife's warning, i believe this was also part of the things that caused them to fight.
I told him to Never Count His Losses, Instead he should give thanks to God For the ones he have.
I used myself as an example, just last year's experiences, i lost some Huges amount last year, I got savksd from my company work, last 2 years my House got burnt. So many unpleasant experience but I am here today giving thanks to God for How Far he Brought Me, and Changed my Life.
I Told him to turn Giving thanks to a lifestyle. Praises and Thanksgiving to God Brings down Gods Presence to do Mighty and Impossible things.
I told him To start something new. I advised him to start a new business. Orange is a perishable goods that can bring a lot of Losses. I Advised him to try out another business, it doesn't matter if He started small.
I promised to Assist him with some funds.
After we spoke on a length of time, i can see his mood went lighter, i saw Joy on His face.
I meant everything i told him.
This was what happened just this morning, i believed this words of encouragement have really eased out every pain, frustration and Anger in him.
Saying a kind words to people can go a long way.
Thanks so much for reading, do have a lovely weekend and Happy New Year
Awww so kind, this Drey 😊
I can even imagine the smile and relief he would have on after sharing with you and hearing such words from you.
Who doesn't want someone who would watch his or her back even if it's just for a minute? 🥺 That was nice of you to do Drey, keep being good and amazing.
Thanks for the Kind words too my able Whale,
Yes indeed it's good to put a smile on people's faces
It's nice when there are people like you to lift up the spirit of the broken hearted
Yes, Thanks so much boss
Wow this is so nice of you, despite just being words ,it touches his heart and made a difference.
Having fail attempts in one business can make one dive into another uncheck like he did after selling the vehicle and also not listening to his wife advice.
Glad you were they're to give him your comforting words and I hope fortune smile at him again after this scammer issues.
I really hope so too ,
Thanks so much boss
Words of encouragement are powerful.
I agree with you that your should turn his mournings into dancing, he should praise God even when it doesn't seem things are going well.
God is Faithful and would come in to help him. I hope to hear good news about you and your friend soon.
Amen, I pray he get s a miracle too
Of course you have told us a good story and it is the responsibility of all of us if we help another person in this way and make his life easier then we will all be better off in the future. Things will get done because of this help because after helping each other life becomes easier.
I agree with you, Helping your fellow humans come with a lot of blessings
Thanks alot.