I was a very stubborn child, when I was very small, my mum do tell me that, she was so frustrated and stressed out due to my reckless and stubborn behaviour as a kid.
She told me seriously that I have put her into a lot of troubles, like fighting in the preschool and Kindergartens, I broke my neighbour car wind shield, destroyed a lot of of electronic gadget in our house. I was predicted to be very stubborn, trouble Making and Reckless life style when I become an adult but they were all wrong, I grew up becoming the opposite of that. My mum keep saying that she doesn't believe the Man I actually grew up to be, but the truth is that My parents disciplined me well and made me a well mannered person in the society.
For me I believe a Complex Relationship Between a Child's Traits and Parenting.
The Role of Traits in Shaping Behavior
Research suggests that a child's traits, such as their temperament and personality, can influence their behavior, that means that truly as a child whatever your traits or temperament are can affect you when you grow up, but with external efforts like your parents, teachers and guidance you can actually become a better person.
Some children may be more prone to tantrums, just like me when I was very small, while others may be more easy-going. However, it is very essential to remember that traits are not destiny. With the right parenting approach and guidance, children can learn to manage their traits and develop positive behaviors.
Nobody should downplay the Power of Parenting.
The Bible said in the book of Proverbs 22 Vs 6: "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it"
This scripture from the holy book emphasize the importance of Parenting and guidance.
Parenting style can significantly impact a child's behavior, regardless of their traits. Parents who are warm, supportive, and consistent can help their child develop self-regulation skills, empathy, and responsibility. On the other hand, parents who are authoritarian, permissive, or neglectful may inadvertently reinforce negative behaviors.
A Delicate Balance is needed.
Disciplining a child is a challenging task, especially when considering their unique traits. While it's essential to set boundaries and consequences, it's equally important to do so in a way that is loving, consistent, and tailored to the child's needs.
Focus on rewarding good behavior, rather than solely punishing bad behavior. This encourages positive actions and reinforces self-esteem.
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parents should also Establish clear rules and consequences, ensuring the child understands what is expected of them and they should Acknowledge and validate your child's emotions, helping them develop emotional regulation skills and empathy.
Finally everyone should note that Consistency is key in discipline. Ensure that consequences are fair, consistent, and related to the misbehavior.
In conclusion
Truly a child's traits can influence their behavior but parents play a very important role in shaping their actions.
Here is my response to #hl-w173e3
I truly agreed with you. Parenting is very important especially at that tender age when children are still growing
You were so stubborn like you said, but your parents helped you with lots of efforts to grow into another person. Kudos to them.
Yes o,they still can't believe I will grow up to be very calm and gentle
Nice one 👍. Wishing you all the best 😇