Hang in there and keep pushing.
Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. If giving up was an option, trust me, many of us would have taken the easy way out because life itself is no bed of roses; the difficulties, the hardships, and the challenges are something that we all have to deal with, especially as adults. As kids we felt like life was one big bed of roses because our parents were there to shield us and make provisions for everything we needed, and for that reason many of us were in a hurry to grow up so we could enjoy life to the fullest, but we grew up and saw something entirely different.
Now as adults, instead of enjoying life like we dreamt of as kids, we have challenges to overcome and difficulties to deal with, and with each passing day, it feels like it is getting even more difficult and more difficult. Adulthood sometimes feels like we actually grew up to solve problems, and one thing that breaks the spirit is when it starts to feel like the problems are given on promo where you solve one and get 3 free. Sometimes you struggle and manage to solve a problem, and tomorrow there are 3 others that need your attention too.
Sometimes life can be really frustrating and depressing, and you start to feel like your case is the worst, but when you go out and meet people, you come to realize that your case is only a minor issue, and if you are asked to choose which problem or which challenge you'd like to deal with, you will choose yours because you have heard other people's stories and come to realize that yours is but mild, and all you need to do is to keep pushing and hanging in there until you are able to overcome the challenge and it becomes a thing of the past.
We all have to accept that challenges, obstacles, and the ups and downs are all a part of life and adulthood, and we just have to find a way to stay strong and deal with it when they come knocking. There will always be difficulties and challenges to overcome on your way to success; the road to success is never a smooth sail and will never be. You just have to toughen up as you journey towards your success, as giving up will only stop you from attaining your full potential.
Giving up is not an option, as people will ask you questions, your kids will be disappointed in you, and that alone should serve as a motivation to keep pushing. Don't stop; you just have to keep trying until you turn things around. Nobody is saying it will be easy, but you have to keep going. You can take a break when necessary and come back stronger and even better just to see to it that things actually turn around.
I am with you. We could be going through something that we think would kill us, but when we hear other people stories, it puts things into perspective. People are going are legit going through 3x of what we are going through, and still managing to smile and push through.
It is well.