Extending a helping hand is not anyone's obligation.

Hello, everyone.

I welcome you to my blog. Our world is changing every day, and things that were not in existence are now in existence, and things that were frowned upon are now the order of the day and are now seen as the right thing to do. Our world has evolved, and there have been a lot of developments and changes since the evolution of our world. Some of these changes are good, and we are grateful for them, while some are bad and are frowned upon, but people still don't want to let them go; instead, they come up with silly excuses as to why the change is necessary.

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Once upon a time, indecency and putting on revealing clothes were something everyone walking the face of the earth frowned upon, and the few that liked doing so were uncomfortable and scared of doing so because of how they'd be treated by everyone they came across whenever they tried it and for that reason were forced to be decent, but the evolution of our world turned things around, and now indecency is seen as a lifestyle; it is even seen as a means of breakthrough, especially for those who want to be content creators on Web 2 platforms. All they do is put on revealing clothes and do indecent things on videos, and then the viewers and followers come flowing in like a flood.

One of the changes that occurred in our world today that still leaves me in awe is how people now feel entitled to receive help and support. There were times when we all knew receiving help of any kind was out of the other person's generosity or benevolence, but sometimes I wonder how all of that changed, and today 70 percent of people get angry when you tell them you cannot offer them what they ask of you. Now people are even scared of saying no because of how doing so would affect their friendship or relationship.

We had days when relationships and love were genuine, but today many lazy ladies see it as an escape route from poverty; they have nothing to offer but want a man that has everything to offer them, and it is more annoying when you come to realize how entitled they feel. Many people in our world today have that sense of entitlement; they feel like because they know you or you are in their life and have the power to help them do certain things, then you have to do it whether it is comfortable for you or not, and this entitlement mentality has ruined a lot of friendships and even relationships.

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Extending a helping hand, whether by a boyfriend, friend, or even a neighbor, is not their obligation but something they do out of their own benevolence, not because they have to. You are not entitled to any help from anybody, whether friend or boyfriend, so kill that entitlement mentality and stop ruining friendships and relationships that would have come in handy in the future because they failed to come through for you.