The Dark side of Double Dating:Hive-weekly prompt 37 Tag: Double Dating

Welcome everyone to the Hive-weekly prompt and captioned double dating, and I will be talking today on double dating disadvantages. One of the disadvantages of double dating is a lack of focus, if you take two things at the same time, trying to get the same result, is wrong. Imagine placing a pot of oil on the pan and trying to fry an egg at the same degrees; you will find out that you will lack focus on controlling them because one might get burnt.

The purpose of double dating is to find someone who is true, and the trick where we get it wrong with ourselves is finding the right person by having many people, like two lovers, to find out who really love you. But I will tell you clearly that you will lack focus; you will be distracted because once this person offends you, you will run to the other, and once the other offends you, you will run back to the other. And what if, at the end, you decide to pick one?

Everybody has a temperament; what you will do to A, you will do to B. B might be angry; A might be okay with it. B might be obsessed with the way you talk, while A will like it. And believe me, you will also want to like the person that loves what you like.

Maybe B is obsessed about what you and A like, and that thing B is talking about is something that, if you can try to change, it will be for good and betterment to your life.

Now, another disadvantage of double dating is making wrong decisions. Most times, the people you think love you might be doing because they stand a chance of gaining or are getting something from you. and the other person might just be there, doesn't care about what he or she gets from you,So you can't pay attention once you are double dating; that's another error, and you won't be able to make clear decisions once you double date.

Another error of double dating is shame. Once you are discovered, maybe two of them come and meet at the point C with you together; you see that there will be conflict, and if there is conflict, the turnout won't be nice, and shame will be on your own face. And what if the people you are double dating know each other? That's another error of double dating. For me, I prefer one woman, one man at a time.

Another issue of why we have double dating error is people that go into dating don't know what they want from dating. They just go into dating because they feel they are old enough to date. From the first date you meet with somebody, you should be able to know if this person is actually fit to work with.

It is stressful double dating it drains your pocket as a man and makes you less important as a woman because you lack decision making.

And most times, what if you go and date, and the two persons love you, and you don't know how to conclude? Lack of decision has come in. Decision is very important because you have to decide; who to carry along? That's another error of double dating.

Double dating has slim advantages. Any red flag is a red flag; drop and move ahead. Many persons double date because they want to use it as a way to heal from their formal partner, and they find themselves that they are still entangled with their formal partner, and they are in with this new partner. So, double dating, for me, it's a no-go area. If you want to stay happy, avoid double dating. Focus, give the person attention and time; the signals and the flags will tell you if you can stay with the person or not.

In conclusion You will end up hurting yourself taking part in Double Dating.

It's an emotional destroyer............

Tampers with your level of tolerating people.

If you are used to it an get married with that kind of character it can ruin your marriage because you will want a change of person because you will get bored with the one you have......

#Stay safe
#cheers