My transformation Story

Revealing my transformation .....
Happy new week to everyone in this community, it's a great pleasure to always express myself here, And anytime I come in here I always love the content I see here there are always mind blowing......

Well that's not what I want tell you today.....
Let me talk little about my life today......
From my childhood to a teenager, down to adult hood I had three major problems.....

Which were " Over trusting"
Well I didn't always cared to know who this is or was , I didn't always try to use my mind to guess at what this type of person is either from the appearance , Looks, Even from the persons response to other people and actions he uses on matters.

I just go straight to believe what they tell me about themselves.

Am a kind of person that was quiet to a fault when I was much younger, I don't mind leaving something of great Worth for my opponent or peers, friend or a passerby.

it was even worst even up the extend I couldn't answer questions in public places like Church, school.....

mind you I wasn't a dull person at all I was very bright and intelligent my records in school proved it countless times.

I scored low on verbal interview, quiz e. t. c.

let for me alone any question you want me to answer properly just give a pen and a paper and I will properly digest it for you.

This my quit nature made me not been able to defend myself even when accused falsely; like there was a particular day in the kindergarten school I attended a friend of mind went and ask our teacher that is she call me?

Wow!!! I went there to know what was the problem I never knew I was the victim and I was seriously dealt with simply because I couldn't speak out.

Now I had friends yeah, I talk and play with them.....

But anything outside that circle apart from my parents and siblings I will just keep mute....

Well let me say I was a very shy person......

Another Great error I had Was "Putting others First" I so much love it when it's right with others but cared less for myself, there were countless scenarios I gave out things I really needed to other persons.
I was thinking by doing so it will make me along with everyone I was thinking giving everyone that comes around me access to me was the best thing to do ever.

But I didn't work that way ........

They will collect all and later not even behave as if we have met before.....

It taught me a great lesson that before you give out give to yourself first...

Before you stick your neck for someone stick out for yourself.....

I find it hard to build myself but very to couch and encourage another person....

I didn't place value in myself and made many persons think less of me..

The last thing I will share today is "Procrastination "

This one here it was as if I was the father of it...

Should I say I have birth to it 🤣🤣🤣

Am telling us nothing but the real truth....

many opportunities passed me because of this..... I presented low knowledge informations on any given thanks...... For everything I always did it must get to the eleventh hour before I will start doing rush hour, 007 and flash,

hahaha 😂🤣😂 this procrastination always made me inferior because I always failed to plan.

That means I planned to fail.

However, now am a better version of myself I play music on big platforms, a can sing, and can give a talk or teachings in any gathering at all.

I follow well anywhere I find my self.....

communicating to anyone either we're meeting for the first time is not really a big deal any longer for me.

I discovered this when I always did monthly critics on myself.

thank you all.