The Silent Suffering: Why Men Need to Choose Well in Marriage

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Let me share a truth that many men understand: a bad marriage can silently devastate a man's life.

Unlike women, men often struggle to support a toxic partner.
We(men) are not usually emotionally equipped to handle and overcome a negative environment at home.
Even if a man doesn't say a word, you can often see the toll it's taking on his physical and mental state.

You might see him drinking alone at a bar, lost in thought. You might think he's struggling financially or dealing with a health problem.
But often, he's simply tormented by the woman he married.
He is left thinking about what could have happened and what went wrong

A man can be doing financially well, but still carry the weight of a disrespectful or unsupportive partner that can make him look miserable.

This is why some men, despite outward appearances, fall into deep depression.

For many men, making money is not the most important thing.
Living with a woman who doesn't respect them can be more difficult than any financial burden.

This is a contributing factor in the high rate of suicide among men. Our emotions are also high, and it is difficult to properly control our emotions when it comes to a woman you love but she is toxic.

Therefore, it's essential to choose wisely. I sometimes question why a good man would stress himself over something he has the power to control. the choice of a partner belongs to men while the approval belongs to women.

I understand that some women stay in toxic relationships because they lack self-esteem or fear being alone.
But what drives a man, who theoretically has more societal freedom, to the point of near-suicide over a relationship?

Ultimately, it comes down to choice because of these reasons;
Men; it's important to remember that a child is a child, regardless of biology.

What matters is the way you bring that child up. I know families who are financially strong today because a man embraced his wife's child as his own and the child became a pillar of support to his family.

Some men hesitate to divorce because they fear raising another man's child, or believe that no other woman can care for their children like their mother.

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But this simply isn't true. I have seen stepmothers go to extraordinary lengths to care for their stepchildren, even taking them with them after a divorce.

As men, we need to understand these truths and choose partners who will nurture and support us. Moving around like a fool because of one woman is a mistake.
Remember, your destiny might lie with another woman.

And understand that even if a child discovers that their father is not their biological parent, they may never change their mind to their step parent. The man showed up and the biological did not.

As a man, think about what is truly important, be a man, and understand your destiny might be another woman.

Remember: you can be a wealthy man but the toxic woman you think is your everything can ruin you down.

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