Never Let Your Closeness to a King Make You Forget Their Crown.
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How do you treat the people you admire, especially when you become close to them?
Let me explain.
Sometimes, we get so comfortable with people we once looked up to that we start forgetting who they really are.
You meet someone you've always admired — maybe a boss, a mentor, a leader or even a celebrity. At first, you respect them deeply. You’re inspired by their work, their wisdom, and their achievements.
But over time, you start seeing their human side. Their habits. Their mistakes. Their not-so-perfect side.
And slowly, the respect fades. You begin to treat them like any other person.
But here’s the truth. Seeing someone’s weaknesses doesn’t make them any less great. It doesn’t cancel out their strengths or their impact.
That CEO you respect might forget her car keys often.
That powerful leader might laugh too loud at silly jokes.
That mentor you admire might be terrible at replying to texts.
That artist you love might have bad table manners.
That pastor who inspires you might love action films too much.
They are still human. And being human doesn't reduce their greatness.
The question is, can you still respect their gift even when you’ve seen their flaws? Can you still honour their position, even when you see them tired, unfiltered, or not at their best?
I’ve seen people ruin great connections just because they got too familiar. They forgot what made them admire that person in the first place.
Let’s not be like that.
Just because you’ve seen your boss frustrated doesn’t mean they’re not a great leader.
Just because your mentor makes silly jokes doesn’t mean they don’t have wisdom.
So, let me ask you — is there someone you’ve started taking for granted because you got too close?
Maybe a coach, a teacher, a leader, or a friend?
Take a moment. Think back. Why did you admire them in the first place?
Bring back that respect.
Because being close to someone with greatness is a blessing. And you don’t want to miss out on the opportunities that come from that connection.
Too many of us lose access to wisdom and growth because we become too familiar. We start thinking, “They’re just like me, what more can I learn?”
Don’t fall for that mindset.
That same mentor who wears funny slippers around the house might share a word that will change your life.
That same boss who forgets their birthday might still be the one to open doors for your next promotion.
Remember, a prophet is still a prophet even if you see him sleep. A king is still a king, crown or no crown. Respect their gift. Honour their journey. Stay humble.
And watch how your own journey gets better.
Till we reach the promised land, I believe in your success.
Keep rising.
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