DO NOT TRY LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO KEEP TO THESE PRINCIPLES:
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Listen to me, long distance relationship is not for the weak, only those with a high sense of maturity and discipline can meet the demands of responsibility that comes with loving someone they don't see often.
These are the engine rooms that sustains LDR;
1♥️. COMMUNICATION: if you not the calling, texting, chatting and flirting type please forget about this adventure, it's not your calling. LDR largely relies on constant communication to thrive. It's not the place to do who called first or who called last, if you two are not best friends who cannot do without keeping up with each other then simply date your neighbor.
2♥️. TRUST: How do you love who you cannot see most of the time? How do you trust someone when 90% of what you know about them is what they tell you because you are not there? It takes a high level of trust to know that your partner is doing right by you. If you are the type with insecurity and trust issues, avoid LDR with all alacrity.
3♥️. ACCOUNTABILITY: this the security that holds LDR together. You have to be willing to carry each along in your life pursuits. Being accountable means you are constantly informing your partner about your whereabouts, you are not angry when they ask you 'where are you'. They know when you are home and when you are at work, you are sufficiently updating each other about your day to day, that's love over the miles. Since you cannot be together, you will need to bridge that gap by making sure you are in each other's lives.
4♥️. FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY: here me well, Long distance relationship is not for broke people, yes! If you don't have money forget about going into one. It's not for people who don't have data to chat or keep up with video calls. It demands a level of financial independence. You'll always need to get each other gifts and surprises once in a while. You'll always need to buy airtime to stay on the phone for long hours talking to each other, if you are the urgent 2k type please avoid LDR, it's not your calling.
5♥️. EMOTIONAL MATURITY: If your the type that cannot deal with your partner missing your calls then please rest. If you're the type that gets angry when your partner is indisposed to reply your chats for work or other reasons please rest. There is a high level of emotional maturity required to keep it going. People with hot temper cannot survive in a LDR, you'll always be getting angry for nothing and picking up offenses that will lead to prolong malice. If you can't control your emotions when you see your partner commenting on the social media post of an opposite gender then drink fanta and rest.
6♥️. SXXTUAL DISCIPLINE: You will mess things up if you don't have control over your loins. LDR demands that from you, God demands that from every Godly relationship. The ability to keep your discipline and still nurture the excitement in your relationship. You will need to find a way in rainy days, you will need to keep your discipline in lonely days. You will need to keep your discipline even when you visit each other, so that you don't eat the cake and lick the plates.
7♥️. MENTORING: You cannot keep a long distance relationship in isolation. You will need to update the most important people in your life about your status. You both need mentors, people that will be responsible for your chastity and conducts within the relationship. Never isolate yourself to date someone, it hardly ends well.
8♥️. FAITH: trusting God is the surest way to fireproof your long distance relationship. You need a lot of faith to believe that your partner does not have any addictions and ill habits they are covering up. You need faith to trust that they don't have a secret child or secret relationship somewhere, and that they are who they say they are.
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