Romanticizing the Little Moments

If there’s one thing about me everyone knows, it’s the fact that love to have fun. I’m that friend who’s always down to have fun. Any plan that comes up, be sure to have me down even before you tell me. Unless you’re not my friend. But once you’re my friend and I vibe with you, you’re bound to have the best of me all day, everyday.

So yes, I love soft life and chilling, but someway somehow, I found myself slacking a bit last year. I have this thing I do with some of my close friends. We always do something fun at the end of every month because we are literally always stressed out. Sometimes we go out on dates, from there we go elsewhere to do other stuff and on other days, we just plan something quiet at home. It’s always fun to do these kinds of stuff with the people you have around you. I don’t use to be this kind of person, but I managed to grow myself into it bit by bit.

But then, I started to get extra busy and stressed out all the time I started to even forget I made plans with my friends. I would mostly get back home late on that Friday or Saturday night and fall asleep. The next day, I’d wake up and remember I had made plans with my friends. This made us keep canceling so many plans and I didn’t feel good about it. So this year, the goal is to make sure I prioritize these moments as much as I prioritize other things.

Life is short. Shorter than you can imagine even and I don’t want to look back one day and realize my whole life was about getting it and having no fun. I wouldn’t want to have it all and still be miserable and this has led to me making a decision to live intentionally this year and to do the little things in life that matter. One of my goals in life is to enjoy the little things in life. Life them as they come and enjoy these memories. Those days are what add color to our lives. That joke, the argument and all the laughter. Allow yourself to drown in it, because life is beautiful.

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