Nature Lover or Homebody?

Today, let’s not lie to ourselves. You’d agree with me that most of the people you meet who say they are indoor people are only indoors because they don’t have money. Let money drop and see if they won’t be outside.

Every individual has his own personality and preferences when it comes to dealing with people. I’ve met people who are real homebodies and I’ve met people who are outside 24/7. Everyone has what works best for them. However people do change sometimes due to one or two factors.

Being an outdoor or an indoor person I believe is subjective to every individual. I’ve met people who told me that they can’t stay indoors for a full day and I get that. Back then, my dad would literally beg me me to step out of the house because I could be in my room for days and no one would even know. It was really bad and I started getting forced to go out. I mean, what’s really out there that I hadn’t seen already. Thinking about it now, maybe I had a broken heart then. That should explain why I preferred to be indoors all the time.

Personally, I wouldn’t say I’m an indoor or outdoor person. I’d say I’m both depending on the situation and the situation of my pocket. On a normal day, I wouldn’t say I have much to do outside so I’d prefer to be indoors resting and chilling. But then, you can’t be indoors forever. There’s a lot going on out there and we need to step out and enjoy it. Just today, a school mate of mine shared her wedding flyer with us and the first thing @yahuzah asked me was ‘if you’re indoors all the time how who would you find a husband?’.😂

In a way, it is true because I’m not really into people and to get me to step out sometimes is really stressful. But then, there’s another side of me who’s down for anything outdoors unless I don’t find out. It’s more like the switch flipped and I become a totally different person and this is mostly when I have money. I love to have fun but what’s fun without money? You won’t see me outside like that when I’m in my not-so-rich era because I’d literally put all my anger and frustrations on you at any given opportunity. But then, when I’m in my rich era, we ball!!!!

Also, if there’s one thing I’ve learnt over the past years, it’s that staying indoors all the time is not good for one’s health and that’s one thing that drives me to be an outdoor person most of the time. Staying indoors has caused me to fall into depression most of the time which I don’t wish to experience anymore. So, even on days I don’t feel like being an outdoor person I try my best to be. Finding a balance between being and outdoor and indoor person is very crucial for every individual. For most people, it’s being an outdoor person during the day and indoor person during the night. Peace!

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