Can’t Stand Your Coworker? I’m Here To Help You Out:)
Tolerance is the first principle of community. It is the spirit which conserves the best that all have contributed to the common life.- Helen Keller
There is just a short list of things I can tolerate in my life being who I am. Everyone of us has their own freedom to do whatever they want to do but just make sure you don’t cross my part with your bs. That’s just my one rule in life.
There are so many people we work with who are constantly trying to do stuff to get us to react. They’re like the witches sent by our village people to follow us wherever we go. And just make a mistake and react, you’ll turn out to be the bad person in the company or wherever you work because some of these people can twist the whole story to make themselves look like the victim.
No matter what we go through daily at work, it is very important that we learn to tolerate our colleagues if not for a good working environment , then for our own sanity. I’ve met people who can drive you crazy once you start to work on a project with them. They’d leave you to take responsibility for everything and even draw you back at some point and you dare not complain because they will just use that to play the victim. When dealing with people like this, you need it be start about it and learn to put them in their right places when necessary. It is only then they will start acting right.
Most people are just out to give their colleagues at work a hard time because they’re either jealous of them or just don’t like them for no reason whatsoever. You mostly find this happening with we ladies because we are our own enemies. Sometimes all the drama at the workplace is really not necessary. If only we are able to exercise a little bit of patience and learn to live with one another despite our differences, everything will fall in its right place.
Personally, I believe that tolerance is a very important value we all should possess as individuals but there’s a limit to our tolerance. It’s not everything you should tolerate because that would just serve as an opportunity for others to take advantage of you. There are things you can just ignore and there are others that go against your values and what you stand and you should never use tolerance as an excuse to let them pass. Learn to tolerate others but also learn to put them in their place when they don’t behave well.
I believe that this issue is subjective , but for me, this is my stand. Tolerance is very important and also not important in some situations.
I hope you enjoyed reading this, thank you for your time.
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Imagine what this world would be like without tolerance. People would be breaking each others faces everyday 😂.
Some people would want to provoke you just to make you react and look like the villain. Tolerance is a crucial trait to have.
If we all bring our madess to the table they will see that they are still begginers.😂
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It is necessary to behave and control because it’s the manners we all should have.
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Some people just tend to put their manners away sometimes to get on others nerves. We just need to exercise more patience with such people.
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@ayamihaya(3/5) tipped @nhaji01
I have someone currently who pisses me off at work. I’m being patient with him only because my colleagues said I should and that they are going to talk to him. Generally some people just step o. Your toes hoping you react, one day they’ll get what they are looking for.
Me my attention is on the grrr in the first portrait 🤣🤣🤣
I’ll just take the part you said tolerance is not important sometimes because I’m always drained to tolerate people in this life especially as work 🤣
I won’t even mind you, Abi 5pm will come then we all meet at the gate🤣🤣
What will you do at the gate? Nothing.😂
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I have this colleague always trying to be the smart pants around. I’ve had so much fun lately making him feel extremely useless and still acting like I’m looking out for his best interests 😂😂😂. I feel bad though but I’m not the one that you will give fake pressure
😂😂😂 I’m proud of you. Show him who is who.
Who says tolerating people isn't a skill? Some people are just bent on frustrating others, they derive joy in it. Best to do is avoid them as much as you can and when their cups are full, give them a taste of what they served.
😂😂 it’s actually been long I saw people fighting. Some people need that because they seem to never change.
Fighting? some people need to get beaten!!!
That's the only language they understand😂😂😂
😂😂 I tell you
Hi @nhaji01, nice reading this post. As you said tolerance is key at your workplace. Nobody is there to make you happy, you must live your own way to be happy.
Hey,
I totally agree with you. Thanks for passing by.