What my real love is

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It's a wonderful topic for me to share my feelings and experiences on love. Love is sweet, love is beautiful, a life without love can sometimes be an illusion. Love is a magic and love is powerful. If you've been in love before or presently in love you will understand what I'm saying better. When we're talking about love languages, we have it in many ways, some people love language is by giving and collecting gift, some people love love language is by touching and physical look, while some is by action. It all depends on individual choices.

First you need to understand that love is a choice to give!!! And you don't force people to love you, neither you should force yourself in loving someone. Because if you do, you gonna regret it big time in the future and most importantly that kind of relationship won't last. Now let me talk on each love languages before I'll now tell us what my own love language is... Talking about love on gift, to me it's not an encouraging things and what I can use to define true love, though it's good to show love to someone you love which you can use gift as one of the way to show how much you love the person, but yet it shouldn't be your main ways of showing how much you love someone. Giving your lover a gift is just a normal thing, now if this is your main love language, that means if your lover stop giving you gift, then the love won't be there again and doesn't make any sense to me...that's that about defining love with gift.

Another way that some people use in defining their love is by touching and physical look. The truth is, it is good to have a good looking man or woman, but if you really know what you want in woman, then you will know that physical look should not be the priority and some people mentality is to define their own love language by touching, sleeping with each other even before marriage. I can't tell you I'm innocent in this part, having touch, sleeping with woman. But it really not what should define your love language because people with this kind of love language doesn't last in most cases because there will be no value or dignity in each partner due to you making this a priority which can change any of the partner if found an interesting love from someone.

The last love language is my own personal language which I value most and that is actions taking. Love is not just by saying it with mouth, or by giving out gift everyday or by physical look or touching, to me it is by actions. Like I said earlier love is a choice to give and love is a sacrifice, to love someone is to sacrifice many things for the person and by taking actions on it. Your actions tells people how much you love someone even without you saying it out people would have know you really love the person because you will always be there for the person when the person need you in terms of supporting, advicing and caring so much for the person. This is my true love language.

Thanks for reading till the end!!!