My learning shock: Things will never go bad with people you dislike

My learning shock: Things will never go bad with people you dislike.

I welcome you once again to my blog. This is me learning my voice on a topic that interests me so much. So sit tight and enjoy my perspective on my learning shock.

We grow everyday both in learning and in character. One of the characteristics of a mature and rational being is the ability to unlearn and relearn certain things. I grew up with the knowledge that things will be good with only those we like, and things will go bad with people we hate.

However, as I advanced in age, I have come to realize that things will never go south with them rather it will always be good. No matter how you hate someone, it does not rule out the fact that things will always be good with the person.

I grew up in a society where I was told that wicked and bad people never succeed in life, hence I should be good and do good always, for that's the only recipe for success. This philosophy is not only wrong but misleading. A lot of good people never succeed in life. Some of them died as a result of their good deed yet the ones we tag bad and wicked are excelling and making progress.

I had a wealthy family member who never helped us or supported us, we never liked him, in fact we tagged him as evil, yet this man grew in his business and other areas of specialization. This is just proof that no matter how much you hate someone you can not make such a person fall or fail in life.

The principle of success does not include having to like or love someone. Whether you like a person or not, it does not stop him from becoming successful if he does the things that bring about success. Therefore we should change this mindset of wishing someone evil because of hatred. This is witchcraft and this is not powerful enough to bring someone down.

This is one of the many things I was made to believe that had some point in my life formed a philosopher and life itself have proven me wrong in so many cases. What I now believe is that no matter how people hate and dislike me, it can never make me fail in life. Success itself has principles and if these principles are followed auspiciously then success can never erode such a person.

No matter how you hate your ex that broke your heart, it cannot stop them from having a good marriage and relationship. Stop wishing someone evil because it will not happen to them as you wish.

In summary, hate no one because your hatred is not strong enough to bring someone down. Also, it is not as a result of your likeness for a person that makes him succeed. Success is as a result of doing the right thing at the right time.

Thanks.

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