Love For Sale: Exploring Bills and Love

Love For Sale: Exploring Bills and Love

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Many years ago, I was head over heels in love with a girl. I love this girl so much that I was ready and willing to do anything within my capacity for her. She capitalised on that opportunity and kept on heaping her bills on me; I had no option but to try my best to settle those bills together with mine. At some point, it became very frustrating because I couldn't meet the expectations anymore. I noticed that if I continued in this relationship, I might end up putting myself in very big trouble, so I withdrew gradually from the relationship.

Most relationships would have been glorious if not for so much Billings. Unconditional love is only found in the family circle. Outside of this, money happens to be the focal point on which love is built.

What is love, when one has needs that cannot be met? Fun fact, that's a question someone asked me some time ago, many people have turned Love into a poverty alleviation program.

Someone like me, if the bills are too much for me, I will have to walk away. It might not be so for others. Human beings are dynamic in nature, others might see that as love, as much as they take care of your bills, the more they see that as love.

Many people who understand that bills have a way of affecting love make good use of it to end any entanglement they do not want to continue. Many ladies, in a bid to send a man away out of their lives, will begin to heap loads of bills on him, and the man will eventually run away. The same thing applies to men who do not want to continue a relationship with a lady and begin to act broken and poor in a bid to send her away.

However, love built on sincerity and pure intentions has no fear of bills; rather, it rejoices in being able to take care of a partner's bills. This kind of love exists only among family members. Parents who love their children will do everything possible to take good care of them without resentment. That's unconditional love.

Outside the above, when bills arrive, love is bound to fade. It might not take a rapid route but a gradual process till it exits the doorpost.

Bill is part of the responsibility of being in love, a partner, for example, who is seriously sick needs medical bills to take care of his/ her self, where genuine love is, one should be able to take responsibility for it. In that case, only true love can survive beyond the bills.

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