From misunderstanding to argument and to dispute: How lives can be destroyed by argument

From misunderstanding to argument and to dispute: How lives can be destroyed by argument

Welcome once again to my blog. I am delighted that my blog posts are beneficial to lots of people because of the positive feedback I get. I am so grateful.

Today I will be taking you through the vicious cycle of argument. How arguments can lead to a negative impact on society. I hope you will learn a thing or more.

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An Argument is the first step before a fight ensues. An argument occurs when there are conflicting ideas and beliefs. When these ideas are not harmonized, it results in an argument. In an argument, both parties see themselves as being right in their own eyes hence, when the other party does not see the same thing from his perspective, an argument is likely to ensue.

The thing is that argument knows no bounds. It can occur anywhere and at any time, and any person can be involved in it. However, arguing over a thing is not bad at all. After all, we can learn things from arguments. There are lessons to learn from it.

Some arguments are informative, intellectually driven, and structured while others are born out of sheer misunderstanding and differential ideas. The former has a lot of lessons one can learn from. In this aspect, a strong argument always wins. This is where the capability to argue things out and to win the hearts of the people emanates from. The latter is likely going to degenerate into fracas if not controlled. In most cases, one has nothing to learn about other than regret making such a sheepish decision.

Seeing people involved in a senseless argument, the situation is always so embarrassing. Because the raising of voices becomes inevitable people's attention will be directed to the scene, and soon abuses will follow and subsequently, a fight will follow which can later lead to the destruction of lives and property. Therefore, the best way to curtail issues like this is to avoid getting into a senseless argument at any time. When an argument gets to a crescendo, anger is triggered and if not controlled, any of the following can happen; abuse, a fight, resentment, a negative relationship, etc.

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Some skills are necessary to avoid arguments at all times. One such is to avoid discussion with some categories of people. Some people can never have a smooth discussion without an argument, mark such people and never engage them in a discussion and if you should do so, be conscious of the fact that when the discussion digress to an argument, immediately put an end to the discussion.

Also, learn to walk away from every senseless argument. It will help you. When you see yourself in an argument please, walk away from it. Accept defeat even when you're not wrong, it will save you from the consequences that might happen in the course of it.

Keep intelligent people as friends. They will help you not to get involved in unnecessary arguments. Notice that those who argue most are people with low intelligence. So keeping such people at arm’s length will help you a lot.

In conclusion, avoid every element of unstructured and senseless argument, it will help you a lot.

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