Staying on the side of Truth
In life we will come across many such situations where our integrity will be questioned. We will come across people who will put across their wrongness so confidently that it will become embarrassing for us to put our righteousness across. 2 years back me and my family faced such a situation. One of our old uncle had passed away, he was my hubby mother's brother. We had a very close bonding with him. During the last 2 years of his life one of our known person who was his neighbor started taking care of him. When our uncle passed away he got claim on all his property, he was already taking some action while our uncle was alive which we were not aware of. Our Uncle was very old and in a fragile state so the man took advantage of the whole situation, it was all happening during the Covid times when we did not have much of mobility. Also our uncle lived alone in another city so it was not very easy for us to keep visiting and the man took advantage of the whole situation.
The story did not end there, after our uncle passed away, the man started putting some content on social media where he kept pointing out to my hubby that we were the ones who wrongly entered our uncle's life and he was the genuine caretaker. It was all a big mess, initially we thought of doing a court case and we also started with the process but it was a draining process and day and night we were entangled in it, we were losing our sleep. That man was a real crook and he knew how to manipulate the system. He had got our uncle's will also in his favor, which was an unbelievable thing and we know that it was all done wrongfully. But then we just thought of quitting the whole thing and ignore him completely.
For many months he kept doing something or the other to instigate us and also threaten us in many ways, but we just ignored him, like as if he did not exist for us in this world. Initially it was tough, but then we were feeling that fighting with him was like losing our own peace of mind and our sanctity. We did not want to stay in that chaos, even if it meant losing out a fortune. Neither did we try to prove ourself to anyone, we knew our truth and we trusted ourselves and the Universe that being on the side of truth he would never be able to bring any harm to us.
Now when I am looking back at that incident, I feel so happy and also relaxed that we made the right decision. By cutting him out completely from our space and lives by not responding and reacting to him, all his wrongness and the way he fooled and backstabbed our family, we only found ourself inviting tonnes of positive energy into our life. Sometimes I also think that this whole situation was like a test for us in life, but I still do not understand was this test to fight it out or was it to Let Go. Anyways we Let Go and we found peace in it.
Though many people do not agree with me, but I always believe in one philosophy that for every wrong done to me by any one, I do not always have to get back to them, there is Universe who is recording it all, our actions and even what is in our mind and the Universe will pay us back accordingly, that's what we call Karma. I fight till it's in my capacity, but I do not wish to fight where I find my energy and consciousness altering to negative states, when such is the case I would prefer to take a step back, which we did in this case.
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After all, it's not the properties owned matter when dead but how you are as a person.. Yes ma'am; if it causing so much stress, it's good to let go.😊
Very rightly said, no one takes anything from here and thank God for that, else up also there would be fight for money and power :-)
Thank you ma'am.😊
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I also believe in Karma Ma'am @nainaztengra you did the right thing mam. God is watching
Thank you, true, he is watching everything
Ho sakta hai usne aapke sath wo sab scene isliye hi create kiya taki aap us property ko cliam karne tak na aao. Kyunki agar aap wo karne wahan jate to uske wo jhuthe proof aur claims sabke saamne aa jaate. Usko bhi clearly pata tha ki wo galat hai. Well, aapne jo kiya wo sahi hi tha, kam se kam aap apni zindagi mein sukoon se ho. Aur uska hisaab bhagwan kar denge.. aur main aisa kuch wish nahi kar raha hoon balki apne anubhavon ke adhaar par mujhe pata hai ki humare sare acche-bure karmo ka hisaab hota hi hai, karm chakra se to khud bhagwan bhi nahi bache, aur ye baat to hum sab jaante hi hain. So jo hua accha hua, aapki life mein sukoon aur khushi hai au abhi bas wahi mayene rakhta hai :)
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You are right, he tried to scare us in many ways by attacking us on social media platforms where all our friends and family are there, he wanted to spoil our reputation, but that did not work and finally he must have understood and became quiet. He tried to intimidate us many times and initially we were getting caught in his these acts and we would react, that would only leave us unpleasant.
I too strongly believe that God is watching it all and everyone gets their fair share here itself. As we say heaven and hell is all here.
Letting go and focusing on peace is often the best choice. Your approach reflects true wisdom and strength dear. I wish for the best to happen in the near future
Thank you. Though many of our relatives told us that we should have fought him, but in that time it was too difficult for us to deal with all these negative actions
I can imagine how uneasy that might have felt
What he did is really sad but I’m glad you did not revenge or act funny
He’s surely going to regret what he did
Karma is real
We were feeling drained out dealing with him, so it was best for us to completely cut him out from our lives.
It's a good thing that you neglect him to have a peace of mind for the whole family. If one door closes for sure a lot of good things will be open to you. Just stay positive in everything that was happening.
I too believe in that, it's not about winning every time
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