In bad situations, the power to say no comes from our own mind.

10 days ago (Edited)

This is exactly how the creator gave us a sense of respect and shame. When someone tells us something, we do as they say and say yes. We never consider whether it is for good or bad reasons, he said. We only say these things to flatter them. Maybe we say yes to them to get their priority, this is the reality in our current society. But we should say yes to the right thing and no to the bad thing. Even if someone asks us to do something bad, we say yes, this is a shameful thing for a person.

When I was a teenager, my friends used to take me to the railway bridge, I still remember this. My friends used to smoke cigarettes. They used to take me to the railway bridge sometimes. We used to have a good time there, but one day it was seen that my friend had brought cigarettes and they were preparing to smoke. He told me that you also take a cigarette and smoke a cigarette. But I did not agree to his words. I told him no at that time. There were several other friends of mine who usually smoke cigarettes almost every day. My friends were very sincere and they didn't mind my words. But it was quite a shame. I didn't know that they smoked cigarettes and I went with them for two to three days and they offered me to smoke it.

I told them no. I knew that if my family found out about this, they would definitely be very upset and they would lose trust in me. Basically, I love my family a lot. That's why I obey their orders. My mother told me not to smoke cigarettes ever. That's why I didn't agree with her.

As a result, my friends were a little upset. I explained almost everything to them later, because of which they took this matter very normally. As a result, a long promise came to my mind. Of course, since I didn't do this with our friends, I won't smoke cigarettes outside. It's true that boys get more chaotic when they are with friends. I got over it. I have understood a lot from this, I can overcome many more bad things in life.

My benefit from this is my own self-esteem. We know that smoking cigarettes harms our body and damages our lungs. Since I gave it up, I have gained a lot of awareness about this issue. I never want to take risks in my life with these things. So I asked my friend to give them up.

I have learned only one lesson from this experience, no matter where I am, if I am honest and if I am good and think about my family, then I will definitely be good in life. I will be able to do good things in life. If there is goodwill in myself, then of course people will be able to say good things are good and bad things are bad. I was able to adapt myself to bad situations, this was one of my experiences at that time. If I wanted to, I could have smoked cigarettes there, but the force of my own mind trapped me there.

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