A wrong decision changed my life through a friend.

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Hello friends, I hope you are doing well. Welcome to my new post. I am here to participate in the new contest. I thank the admin for organizing such a beautiful contest.

It was about seven months ago. I had a friend in my village, he is basically my younger brother. When I go home from the hostel, we both roam around the area together. When I came to the hostel in the city, he was in the village. Several months ago, he asked me to stay in the hostel. I told him that I have space in my hostel, he can stay in my room. He stayed in my room in my hostel a few months ago. Our college is almost in the same place.

However, after a while, I saw that he was quite dirty, he did not clean the house much. I clean our room occasionally. Then I thought that this decision was very wrong of me. If I had given space to someone else in my room, maybe I could have influenced him. If someone else was with me, I could discipline him, but he was my friend, and I couldn't say anything to him. I felt like it was my biggest mistake to keep him in my hostel with me. What can I do? I can't tell him to leave. I tried to change his behavior. I kept telling him to keep the room clean. Sometimes he would listen to me, sometimes he wouldn't. But I felt bad about his behavior.

One quality of my friend was very good. He ate less food from outside, especially oily and spicy food, especially junk food. Basically, he spent very little money outside. Because of this, I have become very frugal. When I go out with him, I spend very little money. Where I used to spend about 2000 taka in a week, now I spend about 500 taka when I go out with him. Slowly, his behavior also improved a lot. Then I realized that my decision was very good.

I learned a lot from this experience. First of all, I understood that some of my behavior may be bad and some of his behavior may be bad. But in some way, we have a good understanding later. I helped him change his bad behavior. On the other hand, he helped me change my bad aspects. We have become a lot of complements to each other now. Currently, we are very good. There is a lot of maturity between us. I hope you will like this post of mine.

I invite you to participate in this contest. @bemuter,@abelmamman @kannygospel.

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Wow this is a nice story and it is worth telling, you are really a brother. Do not get tired of doing good, because the good you pour out to the world today will surely find its way back to you tomorrow. Together everything is possible 💪

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Wow, at first his behavior towards cleaning was bad, but your actions of carefully handling the situation change him and his experiences influence you

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