RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #69- “TRUST ISSUES”
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Oga!
Don't be a mugu ooo.
In this.our generation, if allow your spouse to have a bestie of the other gender, for me, it's not safe to allow such.
Truth is that most men do not feel secured when another man is close to their wives, the unimaginable could happen.
Besties end up being in love. Most guys who are besties to married women would have been in love with them at one point or the other.
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But what if she knows the bestie before the met you abi the bestie is a family friend
Even at that, there must be boundaries. The guy too should begin to settle down nah.
He should not be too close knowing that he would get married someday.
Chai.😂😂😂
What if she met the best friend before she met the husband/boyfriend?
Bros!
Once marriage is sealed, boundaries must be set.
True sha.
Na so, bro.
I salute you, my oga.
That's why life is like a talking drum, when it faces you, it backs other people.
Another angle is, to you men, having besties of opposite gender is not a crime but if the female is to have an opposite gender as bestie, it becomes an offense and act of cheating.
WHYYYY 😋
No oo.
I don't have a female bestie because I respect my wife and don't want her to be insecure. Marriage is sacred and between only man and wife, any other should stay away and never interfere.
Yeaaahhh I get, it's a choice but should never be a suspicious act of cheating towards the person who chose to have
Na so na. Best friend should not be gender-based.
Its best there are set boundaries once married, make everybody cut off their "besties"
Thank youuuuu
There will be boundaries set not even until when you're married sef, shey you get
Na so.