Three of my turn offs

As a person, I'm naturally quiet. I've trained myself to always be myself that's why I always mind my business, it usually takes a whole lot of effort for me to speak out because I don't like interfering in others affairs at all.

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But those people that I'm close to know I'm a jovial person and I'm also observant in nature, I take note of things closely but sometimes when I don't want to act, I will try my best to leave the vicinity so that it won't lead me to take regrettable steps and actions.

As human beings, we all have those things we dislike with a lot of passion, just like an adage that says "one man food is another man's poison", so is our turn offs. What I hate with passion might be what you like so dearly and vice versa. We all have our different likes and dislikes.

One of the things I hate with passion is to see people who keep grudges. How on earth will you have issues with someone and the next thing is to hold the person to heart and also try to avoid the person, it doesn't make sense to me.

We human beings have different understanding and how we react to things, so having issues with others is bound to happen.

To me, fighting/exchange of words with others is bound to happen.....it is continuous, fight and settle, become friends again, then fight again.....its continuous......with this you will have full understanding of the person's personality.....when I tell people this they always laugh at me but maybe I'm wrong but that's how I see life and people living in it.

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If I have a fall out with someone, I go to the person then I will try the best method I can think of to express myself so as for the person to correct him or herself. I don't know how to hold grudges at all because I see grudges as bitterness of the heart and I don't want to take anything to heart at all.

So I wonder how some people do it when they hold grudges for long against their fellow human being, heaven knows I hate this character with passion.

Another turn off that I hate with passion is when people try to be bossy, that is being domineering. I'm always irritated by people who portray this kind of traits. They believe they are the best and don't rate others high at all.

They feel they are above, more intelligent and more influential than others and they always want others to give them respect anywhere they go. I hate it when someone makes others feel less important in what they do, portraying a bossy trait turns me off greatly and I see such people as being toxic.

I'm also irritated when people judge you based on what others say about you. I'm kind of neutral when I come in contact with someone newly I don't judge at all because I know the reaction someone gives Mr A is definitely different from that of Mr B, so no one can be predicted, but when others act based on what they've heard about me or someone else makes me wonder why they have made themselves low like that. I detest such habit and I can't tolerate it at all.

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