RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIP ;WHEN TO STAY AND WHEN TO GO

Relationship is Sha very sweet with the right person, were there is less worries, someone that understands you, someone you are free with and someone you love to spend your time with
Don't get me wrong we all have our own sides of demons, we are not perfect we are humans and we are likely to make mistakes even in the sweetest relationship

Just like hiveghana has given us opportunity to talk on red flags in relationships, I will be sharing with us my own personal red flags from man before we broke up

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LACK OF COMMUNICATION

If there is anything I love most in a relationship is communication.. communication is the key to every successful relationship. When I was dating, ha!!!!! The frequent communication I used to get from my man was worth falling for him, no matter how tired he was, he was always still available to hear from him before any other thing

4 months later, he started with not communicating for days, weeks, months and I understood that maybe his job was demanding, so I will always be doing the communication, but then each time I try communicating, either by calls or text messages or any other means, he is always giving excuses that he is always tired to communicate

Oga you sef, fear God now, that was him slowing giving reasons to withdraw, I complained to him that lack of communication is slowly destroying our relationship, but he replied that if I am not comfortable, I should move on that work is on his mind. Seriously, I moved on. Communication keeps any relationship going and it always makes it stronger

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BAD FASHION SENSE
All my life, God knows I don't like people that can't dress, as a guy why will you wear Ankara with Crocs, why will you wear Ankara top to swimming pool... Like how....
You don't know how to dress to church make my fellow woman see my man d jealous

Like, I don't even know how to explain this thing,my brain just d hot.... But all the same, if you don't know how to combine clothes and dress probably with good haircut, then you are my red flag, don't come close, I will run away from you very far
Man were I go fit d proud of to commot with, you dress well, smell nice, you keep a smiling face, kaiiiiiiiiiiiiii..... make I just marry first, this space will not hear something, the way I go fluent my man ehhhhhhh

AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY
Why will we be quarrelling and you know very well that you have offended me, but then pride no go gree you, you decide to keep mute avoid the problems and when I tell you that this is what you did and I didn't like it, you go now shift the blame to another.. learn to take responsibility for your actions abeg. Na this red flag the make people lose their relationships

**Finally, na this particular red flags the off me.

DOING UNNECESSARY THINGS LIKE PIERCING YOUR ENTIRE BODY
There is nothing I hate some much than when I see a guy, piercing his ears, piercing his nose, wearing nose and ear rings, wearing waist beads and leg chains, making your hair, colouring it pink and fixing your lashes, wearing tight jeans trouser and chewing gum
All this things are really disgusting when a man does it. Nobody should come for me, I know most girls love it, but these are my red flags

I won't even respond to a give who walks up to me with any of these this listed above, it will just be making you more feminine, it is a big red flag for me

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