PERSONAL CHARISMA ; WHAT MAKES YOU SPECIAL IN THE EYES OF OTHERS

I don't really know, but I really feel excited writing this particular contest topic

What makes you special to others, endears you to them? Explain in your own words and give examples.

Ómór... A lot of people call it pride, but it is not... This is just the attributes that makes me unique and special...

These question reminds me of how I used to look down on myself because I thought I was never special or unique, I felt I had to be rich before I could be dear to people....
But my mentality changed when o started self love and taking care of my pretty self.....

Today, I'm going to be sharing with us few things that makes me special to others... Stay tune.

AUTHENTICITY
In as much I used to remember, I had so much hatred for my self, my height, my colour and my size... I'm always like people don't like me because I am Short, I am black and all of this.

But one day, I was sharing my story with someone and the person told me something... Height is inconsequential, my body is other people's prayer points.... I am special to him and every other person that sees me..

Those words actually meant a lot to me... With this, I am also able to encourage other people to be genuinely true to themselves by not looking down on themselves and then I am able to share my experiences with them by so doing, there is a sense of deeper connection that I have created.

BEING SUPPORTIVE
Another thing that makes me special is my supportive nature.... Ómór leave I too d support, I am not bragging but it's the truth... What makes it special, for instance, someone will come to me talking me that he is not alright,he or she wants to talk to someone, and I don't hesitate, I know that point is a stressful period for the person, I will leave everything I had to do to give listening ears, and contribute... That makes the person feel valued and love....

Another level of being supportive is being there for my friends, in times of sickness, joy, happiness, through tough times, celebrating their failures and successes is enough reasons to strengthen bonds in relationships...

SHOWING INTEREST*
Let me use the words of my pastor... "I'm always very detailed enough about important things that concerns people" I'm always very curious to know about other people... I'm not interfering in their lives I'm only trying to show that I care so much about the person...
How do I show genuine interest?
I am very detailed about the conversation we have, I won't forget it, I remember every punctuation marks and the person will always be excited anytime I talk about it....

MY SENSE OF HUMOR
This also makes me really special to others, they will always want to be around me, hear me talk and express myself, creating humorous thins to see people happy...... My personality and charisma is flawless.....
I am even special to myself too and I know....

Other things that makes me special is my sense of dressing, the way I am quiet also makes me special to others...etc....

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