Learning The Hard Way; Learn To Know Your Place In People's Life

One thing 2023 thought me is learning to know my place in people's lives...... I am not a kind of person that have friends or make thousands of friends everyone. I just grow up having few friends that i expect to love me for who i am and not for what i have.

In 2023, i had the perfect friends, i loved my friends and always choosed them no matter how hard it was. I am pained because, I started 2023 with them but didn't start 2024 with them and I know how hurting it can be.

This is because, I didn't know the people that value me. Once i want to have friends, i value them like my whole life, i trust them with everything that i have in me, i believe every words that comes out from their mouths. Just to protect our friendship... But sometimes, we over do and forget to know our places in people's life.

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Having friends that value you and know your value is the best feeling one could ever have. I love my friends, and i entrust them with everything because i trust them. But when you finally discover that you were the only one that value that relationship all this while hurts a lot.

But i used to wonder, am i not good enough, why is my friendship not always working out? Why is it that at the peak of my friendship after everything we planned and it ends up failing.

Since i was young, i have always learned to depend by myself without any friends attached...i have always learned to keep my problems and secrets to myself. My siblings and parents were rarely around, so i always end up trusting my friends and finally i will discover that I was the only person taking the friendship too far.

That was how i had a girlfriend too, i loved her,valued her and trusted her but she end up reading my Diary to the world. I know how much I was hurt, i didn't want to react but I know that, that little thing ended our friendship and I was left shattered and broken.

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And now, this is repeating itself, i trusted alot and now, i am shattered and broken... I didn't know that such thing could happen because i thought that i was valued just the way i valued the person.

And now, I don't want to lose the person, but i am confused, i don't know what to do, I can't crack my brain on what to do, i am just left on the space.
I just wished the friendship lasted long enough because i know how much i valued it.

But, i know that people come and people go, while you are together, enjoy the friendship while it last. And that was exactly what i did and I don't regret anything.

But, learn to know your place in people's life, before going deeper Into that friendship, do your friends value you just the way you value them? Learn to find out this little things so that you won't learn it the hard way just like i am doing now.

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