BEYOND FIRST IMPRESSION ; MY SHOCKING PERSONALITY

On a normal, a lot of people do not really know me except you have that connection with me...
My parents always tell me that my face doesn't matches my character, I tend to be very stubborn and troublesome when I am around the people I know...

I can remember when I started university far back I don't tell in class or anywhere, I don't associate with anybody for any reason, I don't laugh, I go just bone face and pass.. If I choose to greet you na luck and this caused a lot of people to be far away from me.....

One day, were in class, and something happened that was funny and I laughed out loud 😁 and my coursemates were réally shocked and surprised... After the class my coursemates approached me and was like.. Sifonabasi, so you can laugh, talk and be this jovial

I had to explain to them that I tend to get comfortable with the people around me, and one of them said that my face is always scary her away from me, that she has tried several times to approach me for something but she is always scared that I might snub her... Seeing me in my happy mood guaranteed her that I wasn't actually what I portray...

Don't get me wrong, I am a very very quiet person, I talk less and I tend to listen more... I can change to anything you want me to be.... I can just be happy and all of the sudden change in a twinkle of an eye like a chameleon..

I have had different experiences were people are shocked and surprised that I possess different traits in me that I don't really display outside if we don't have any connections.....

Trace back to when i started staying with some group of students in our pastornage.... I came there as a stranger, so I didn't really know how to associate with the people there, my pastor always shout at me that I am too quiet and calm that I should release myself.... I should participate in activities in church, I should learn to talk to everyone in the house.....

I will just laugh because I know that once I am free with all of them, then my real personality will shock all of them...
And truly, they were very shocked when they discovered that what I used to display for then wasn't who I was truly.. ..most times you will here something like Sifonabasi, I can't still believe that this is you talking, I would never believe that you will be dis stubborn and troublesome

So, a lot of people who doesn't know the inside me will see me as a calm, gentle and quiet lady... But deep down I know what I can do and what I cannot do... I smile and laugh a lot, I play and gist too, I gossip and I am stubborn and troublesome and the same time I have a very bad chameleon personality too people call it mood swings 😂 but I am a nice person, this I know. period.

Nevertheless, I tend to interact well with guys even If it is the first impression, I go hand in hand with guys.... But you see ladies, they have to come inside to know who I am.....purrrr...

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