Always Make Peace With Every Situation
Life itself has a lot of negative experiences, some fall under depression, heartbreak, anger moment, lack of love, or every general negative things this life has to offer, and there is one thing I gave notice of, which is that the human brain tend to think more of the negative experience deeply than the positive ones, which is why we must learn to take control of ourself and not let the situation take control of us.
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Most people tend to ignore making peace with the situations around them till it overwhelms them and causes a mental breakdown or leads to other challenges. Before we can help anybody, we must first learn to accept ourselves, even at our imperfect experiences, and make peace with ourselves regardless of the situation, without losing control over anything.
One experience that inspired me to write about this was when I sat down to think about my friend, how rich and comfortable they are, and then I was just there, thinking about this, which really weighed me down. It's really a tough pill to swallow, and sometimes I get shy going to their places or even calling them because I feel they are far more comfortable than I am, and there are levels. This really weighs me down mentally, thinking like I am not doing enough, and it most of the time affects my communication with my family and friends or anyone around me, because I am not happy with myself personally.
The truth is, you are still becoming, I once said to myself, using these words to motivate myself with a lot of hard work and putting in more effort. When I started to think deep, I later understood that someone 10x better than me but that doesn't mean I might not later get better than the person or my future won't be great, Presetly now I don't compare my chapter 4 with my someone's chapter 10 because this mig#y case obsessive and overwhelming thinking are o)nen dangerous in life.
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Lately, I have understood that life has no way we won't experience any situations or step back in life, but we must not allow it to overwhelm us. We must learn to accept it as part of life because everyone will experience it in one way or another.
The moment we start to make peace with every situation surrounding us and also within ourselves, then we start to live a happy life with so many good memories, accepting who we are and that we are not perfect. Living in love regardless of who we are facing or anything we experience, and also accepting that we are not perfect and every mistake we make is part of life. I hate it when people act like they don't make mistakes or are too perfect just to try impress people after their mistakes or when they are fac&ng a situation or problem, life is not designed that way, we all have ups and down to experience in life but o e way or the other we must learn to accept we are humans and always make peace with everything around so it won't be overwhelming.
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