A Genetic Wish: Creating My Ideal Child For Greatness

I still get surprised by my resemblance with my mum, if it's by number, I'd say I got over 80% of her gene. The resemblance even go down to habits and how our system reacts to some things we take. I'm sure many parents have that one kid among their children too, I'm not sure I want it.

While it is cool to have a photocopy of myself in my child, there are some traits I'd rather it ends with me than be passed down to any of my future kids. I've never really fantasized about my future kids, at least not too deeply but this prompt made me realize there are traits I want to see in them.

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Children are a blessing to their parents but today, we have parents who wish they didn't birth some kids because of how they turn out to be. More than how my children look like, I'm more concerned about how they behave, their intellect level and their attitude towards life in general.

Of course, I'd want to have children who are physically blessed like I am. The height has to be there, lovely hair and a better skin than mine lol. I'm not sure if it's advisable to use this as a criteria to finding a partner but I hope my future husband will help my genetic wishes come true.

Someone said, "Marry guy with small head so you can have children with small heads, I have my reason" jokingly and we all laughed to it but the reason was clear. Even during childbirth, any extra difficulty isn't needed, so one of the many things I'd want my kid to have is small head lol.

If I want to be more specific about what I want in my future kids, they should all have height and not too slim but just the right amount of fat to look healthy and fit always. Maybe there is no fat in my mum's gene to take, she isn't slim but she's not fat too but I'd love her body at that age too.

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Having kids who look their age or younger than their age is also an ideal one for me, I can't get used to seeing kids who look much older than their age confusing people around lol. It's why I fear too much fat or weight, it tends to make some children look older than their age mates.

All my kids can have my height and hair but I'd rather they don't take the way my system reacts to some things that I take, they should have less trouble with their health unlike me. I'd want my kids to be strong naturally, which I'm not lol. I'm hoping they will get this trait from their father.

For their attitude and intellect, I've always dreamed of having very smart kids especially with the fact that we are in a smart era, they would have to work less and earn more using their brains than their muscles but they will learn as much as they can in many aspects as backup.

I want to have kids that are beautiful in many ways, their looks, their attitude and the kind of skills they get to have no matter how little it is. I'm not a too stubborn kid to my parents so I wish that I don't have one too, having a few kids who are not so stubborn but obedient to elderly ones.

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Most kids inherit allergies too. I don't want my kids to inherit my hair, full, long and strong. If only the hair is soft.

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It's scary how kids inherit allergies, I wish I could get rid of that possibility. Seems you have a strong hair 😅 you can use treatment to soften it I think.

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Every parent wants the best for their children and it's fine seeing you be on the lookout in picking what you feel will be perfect for yours.

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Yeah, even though God has the final say, He hears our wishes too 😌

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See Merit and small head 🤣🤣
Your thoughts on a partner and mine were the same when I was searching to marry, I refused to go for an ugly guy🤣🤣 because I wanted someone that would compliment me.

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it was the head part that got me smirking in a way

Hehehe
Small head, I think I know why too.

Anyway, having children with amazing characters is what every parent is looking out for because if my children have all of my gene, I would beat some of them Ehn, that’s why I love my better half, she better give them the remaining good traits.

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Lol allow me please 😂
I can imagine already, they better get the remaining from her. It will be best for all of you.

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Having children is a huge responsibility. But it's a wonderful joy.
I have two children, and they are, without a doubt, the greatest gift anyone could ever have.

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This is beautiful 🥰
I pray they continue to be the best gifts for you.

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hahaha, I will also like slim and tall children, considering how much I have suffered because of my height, I don't want any of my children to have that experience.

Of course, beauty is something that should be included and I love that aspect of they shouldn't be stubborn too. I have seen a few stubborn children before, trust me they can be handful at times

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Sorry about your experience, maybe you should consider that for your partner choice so you'll get her height gene on your kids 😅
Stubborn kids are not one I pray for anyone to have really.

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I'm not a too stubborn kid to my parents so I wish that I don't have one too, having a few kids who are not so stubborn but obedient to elderly ones.

This part kind of caught me up for some reasons, haha.
Though you said you didn't really had such considerations or thoughts until this prompt, it seems it was dwelling somewhere in your heart of hearts. Lol.
You spoke some wonderful stuff and it's great.

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Hehe thanks for your nice comment, glad I had these thought out and shared them.

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The height is very important, the way friends tease those that are not tall I cannot imagine my kids be at the receiving end of such.

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Even during childbirth, any extra difficulty isn't needed, so one of the many things I'd want my kid to have is small head lol.

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

Merriiiiiiit!!!¡!

Warrisdis 🤣
Lmao 🤣😂

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🤣🤣🤣
Momma I got the update and I shared o 😂

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Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This update eeh 🤣🤣
It needs re evaluation oo 🤣😂

Is someone scared of the labour room? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I still get surprised by my resemblance with my mum, if it's by number, I'd say I got over 80% of her gene.

In my case, I can see that my current behavior, actions, and thoughts are mostly different from my parents. You can say I have 80% differences from my parents.

You are talking about kids. Right? So, when will you get married? Should I start searching for a groom for you?

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That's unique, to be so different from your parents.

Lol search for a rich and handsome groom please 😂

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