Why I Have learnt to Saying Sorry Always: My Personal Experience

Coming from a background of different Opinions and Views One way through human interaction there must be conflict where people exist and this is a common factor between humans and this conflict usually comes all as a result of different belief systems and most of the time this tends to affect most of our judgement as it is what will make us to either judge right and Wrong and this Is My Story!

Well, everybody thinks he or she is right in his or her reasoning and even I I'm a shareholder on this lol. Most of the time we tend to fight against anyone whose belief system doesn't align with what we believe and any thought which stands in the way of one's thought usually tends to give a sense of threat so usually the mind tries to guide their thoughts jealously.

However it's funny how most times we do not really see the lie in our argument but rather are quick to spot that of others and this weakness in our own argument tends to make the other person not to see reason with us of why they should agree to our point of discussion.

Well such is life, imagine in a world filled with about 8.1 billion people who were raised differently, who thinks differently, wired differently and moves differently and with one thing I've observed so far is that man's Egoistic Nature is built to guide it's Own and not been seen as Failure and many times no one wants to accept defeat so everybody is made up to defend and fight against any suspected threat. Lol

And saying sorry has been one of the most difficult things because it's a little bit belittling, just an open statement of saying what I did or said was wrong; in other words you didn't think well before performing that action and most times it sounds as an Embarrassment to say you didn't think well before Speaking.

Well my definition to Saying Sorry is quite odd, not everybody would tend to accept to my own philosophy about Saying these words.

Saying Sorry to Me is saying I Value this Relationship More Than this Argument we're having Right Now and for us to Continue whether In Wrong or Right that's not my business but let's leave this Argument or difference aside and move on with the relationship. This Might sound weird to many people but this Has really Helped Me in my daily interaction with People.

Placing More Importance on relationships has made me not to let our differences stand in the way of my rapor with you and sometimes people wander saying just someone who I just had a misunderstanding with minutes ago we can still roll like nothing had ever happened before. That's to tell you the length of how I do not take things so Personal although I might sound Personal while in the fight and that's one thing people confuse about me a lot. They mistake my seriousness on the issue as being Personal and that's not just the case.

I'm free with whoever comes my Way and I try not to put Our Differences in Front of My Interaction With You or Anyone.

So far so good on a Personal Note I could say I do not have anyone I do not currently Speak with due to misunderstanding Except they do not want to Speak with Me at all and you know before then I must have tried to but to no avail. The only thing I could say is that "I don't have People I don't Speak with, but I do have people that don't Speak with Me." Period!

Such is Life and sometimes I try not to fight it and just let nature bring us back in alignment to a Common Ground. Do well to Share your Views Regarding this Topic

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