Experience matters!!!!
Hello everyone!!!!
I hope so you all are fine and happy 😀
Every single day add experience in our life, we broke we learn, we fail we learn, we got succeeded we learned too, obviously we learn from our success too as like as we learn from our failure. Well the point is that we are belong to our parents and obviously they are more experienced then us. Having more experienc mean they know more about things.
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Whenever I need any suggestions, I asked to my parents and they've solutions too. But I think they're not really always right, I'm only in my 20s now but I still feel sometimes they're wrong too. Because an experienced person can also do some mistakes.
A time when my parents were Right!!!
When I was in university, everyone has mobile phone, it was the time when touch screen mobile phone were very new in market and a few people have touch screen mobile phone. Mostly my class mates have mobile phone too as it's really helpful in our studies because in university we almost all have studied from internet.
I asked my dad to buy me a touch screen mobile phone too and he denied from it, he said you're not mature to have a mobile phone as your time is very precious and you'll waste it on internet and with friends by chatting or scrolling on social media.
I really feel sad and in other words i feel aggressive that dad doesn't trust on me, why they didn't buy me cell phone but now after a decade, i think he was right, in my early age he didn't handle me a phone and this help me to increase my book reading habit, it help me to save my time and invest it in some useful things.
I'm a reader since childhood but actually I read more books in university age, i didn't waste my time on social media now i think he was right, and he bought a touch screen mobile phone for me when I was in six semester, when I was totally mature and know how to save my time.
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A time when my parents were wrong!!!
My Dad actually an educated person, and he knows well about education, he choose major subject for myself, although later I know that it wasn't a good subject but I've a good degree with that subject. My major is Zoology, with that i can apply in many things, like i can go in wildlife, i can apply for fisheries, and many others. But actually I'm an Asian girl which isn't allowed to do such Job's and the only job which I can do is teaching.
I know it's a good job too but my interest was in something, now I said to my Dad please choose some other subject for my younger sister as you should choose computer, pharmacy, dentist, psychology or something like that which a girl can easily apply her studies in her job.
And now he said, yes you're right because with the modern age we've to change our mind too, current situation needs skills rather than a nice paper of degree.
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There's many situation when I'm wrong and they're right then they gave me suggestions, while in many situations i gave them suggestions and now mostly my dad likes to share things with me as our both experience of life could draw a better result. But they're right mostly and I'm not because parents know much better than us.
- That's all for now and it's also my entry to this week Hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic #hl-w96e2.
Our parents are humans before they birthed us, humans make mistakes and sometimes they never know they are until it all goes wrong and so I don't hold it against them when they do.
The rights they've made in our lives are more and I appreciate my parents for the ones they've done 😊
I also think depriving you from a touch screen phone was for your own good.
Yes, human can do mistakes too and that's why we should ignore those, they want better things for us and make decisions for our own happiness, hehe yes I think it was a good decision at that time 😁
Even the wise can be wrong as well, we should always be ready to learn from our mistakes and never forget that anyone can be wrong at anywhere and anytime..
Things are different now and there are many subjects which are not in limelight in Asian countries because of many norms. My parents wanted me to become doctor but I came to English literature. I know they were right but later on they found happiness in my happiness.
In the case of smartphones, the opposite thing happened. I didn't want but my father gave it to me on his own even if I didn't want it. I think in my case I got many things easily for which others face difficulties. I think they trust me too much and I also do my best to keep it right. Do you know it helped me to read many books online? Moreover, I took the best advantage of smartphones for educational purposes.