Being a Lady I got the biggest lesson [LOH 166]

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Hello everyone!!!!

I hope so you all are fine and happy πŸ˜€

We all are just entered in new year and we spent 365 days which means we learned a lot of life lessons. As life is the biggest school where we learn different lessons. In the 2023 i learned a lot of lessons but the one which I get as a lady is the most important.

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The lesson I learned!!!

Being a Lady, we included ourselves in different stuffs, we set some hard goals and we start to chase those goals and worl hard for them as we know if Ladies start to think something then do it in every condition.

In 2023 i set many goals, I set a goal to do a physical job and i did a school job for whole year, although my salary wasn't much high but I want to do a job because i don't want to waste my studies.

I start to use hive and try to be consistent here everyday to put a good impression on hive and want to grow faster here on hive.

I spent my most time with family and being a lady it's my duty to take care of them and many home chores was my duty which still are my duty. And I put myself into many home chores.

What was the point???

Actually i was so busy in my goals and with family that i almost forgot about myself, i never gave priority to myself. Although my goals are also for myself but still there's something which is missing and that's important.

What was missing in all that??

My health care was missing, my rest time was missing, because whenever I've had time i start to spend time on working on my goals and in the result that i suffered with routine headache and it's the severe thing which i got at the end of year. With routine headache i got muscle pain which was obviously due to over working. A human body and mind needs rest as it's a machine which needs rest.

So, the biggest lesson being a lady i got, that we shouldn't set hard goals, we should give priority to ourselves, we should give rest to ourselves, we should set Me time because if we don't feel good then we can't do nothing in good ways.

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  • That's all for today and it's also my entry to this week LOH contest # 166 and thank you @merit.ahama for such a nice question which gave me chance to share my lessons with all of you.

Thank you for your time and support πŸ’«πŸ€



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Loving oneself is more important as we'll learn to love others too. Regardless of the situation, you should give yourself some time.. It's your investment and wealth ☺️
!LADY

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You're right jane, it's the best investment for now according to the situation πŸ˜€

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I can totally relate,but it’s good to always put yourself first.
Great lesson

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Yes that's why now i decided to put myself first πŸ˜ƒ

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Reading your post was like seeing myself in a mirror... working so hard and forgetting to take care of our health. But now we know better, don't we? ☺ Wishing you great health and wealth this year, @les90.

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We all ladies do the same thing doesn't matter we're from different corners of the world or same but we should give time to ourselves ☺️

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We ladies have a lot to make up for to our families but we shouldn't forget to give ourselves the self care we need

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Yes you're right and now I'll try to keep myself at first priority πŸ˜€

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I'm yet to have a job offline but I can imagine how stressful it could get balancing it with Hive activities.
Well, it's a good thing you know better now that you should have some time spared for yourself.
!LADY

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Yes, it's so stressful to balance between both, but i hope so I'll find some rest πŸ˜€

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