Unforseen circumstances in marriage for ladies

Falling into a wrong marriage can be truly traumatic for a young woman, it is something that can make someone vow never to love again. Falling into a wrong relationship is not by choice, it's just by been unlucky and it is hard to explain how we fall the victim, the feeling is not something that can be explain.

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A young lady who plan to get married at the age of 24 years finally got a man to marry, an handsome man with a well paying job who seem to have a promising future and unknown to her that he is already married once. He proposed and she say yes without a second thought. A day to their wedding, he told her about his failed marriage and the cause of the marriage been because of the ex wife infidelity, she had three kids for him and he is not planning to accept her nor her children again because he is not sure if they belong to him and moreover, the children are a liability to him because they all have SS genotype.

Being a naive girl, she accepted and they got married. Ever since they got married, she never experience a happy relationship she hoped for because the husband does not treat her like a wife, instead he treated her like a slave and not a wife because according to her, she was supposed to be the one to do everything at home because it is her responsibility and because she is a woman and at times, she will be the one to foot the bills.

But with everything she was still enduring it not until the husband decided to bring back the first wife without telling her and started neglecting her and her child. He came home one day and asked her to pack out of the house because he is tired of her, like who does that. Where does he expect her to start from but to avoid unnecessary issues and before it turns to abusive relationship the lady packed out with heavy heart without a plan on how to survive out there.

Nobody supports her in her husband's family so she have no choice. This is the reason why most people are afraid of getting married because nobody knows what is in store for them. No marriage is perfect but there is a limit to what people can take in marriage, every couple fights but once there is no love again and it is obvious, it is better to leave the marriage than to stay there unhappy because anything that cost us our happiness does not worth it.

As a lady, we have to be careful when choosing a spouse, not everything that glitter are gold and not all relationships deserve endurance. Nothing stays permanent and even at times, love change. Women are most affected in a broken marriage especially when there are children in between, the love for our children at times might not allow us to make the right decision. Let me prayerful and also be careful, our happiness is our priority.

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