Marriage without money or marriage without love

There is this question one of my single friends asked when we are in a gathering. It's just ladies talk and she asked which one is manageable, marriage without money or marriage without love and we all look at ourselves thinking about the best approach for the question.

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At times we choose marriage without money when we are full of love, hoping to grow with the person we love, doing everything in our power together to make it work and live a better life together as to there is nothing more than love in a marriage because the couple will love and understand each other and also learn how to tolerate each other no matter what happens.

People choose marriage without money because they believe that if we grow together we will know the value of what we have and because they don't want to hear the say did you know how I work for my money and all sort of annoying words, this makes some to choose love over money.

But others think otherwise, some people will say who love help where there is money and will rather go for marriage without love in as much there is money. Love will not feed you but money will help you live comfortably , they opt for comfortability instead of love because nobody love poverty.

But then everything has advantages and disadvantages. Marriage without money is like fish pie without fish in it, we can still eat the pie without the fish but when it gets to some level, we might get tired of it because it wouldn't be as sweet as having fish in it. And marriage without love is like a slow poison that will kill gradually, if you happen to escape it before it reach the peak or ingest it until it suffocate you is the decision that one make by oneself and at times we can turn the poison into nutrients if we are able to turn marriage without love to the one full with love.

There is nothing like marry happily in love and also live comfortably. Either you marry for money or marry for love what matters most in a marriage is understanding I think because even if you love yourself dearly but unable to understand each other, it will eventually turn to a disastrous situation. Everybody have the option to choose from, it is left to you what you think is the best for you.

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