Money strengthens love
Hello hiveghana community,
what a lovely week and a lovely topic for the week.
which do I think is the most important in a marriage, love or money?
in this golden era or Gen Z era as most will call it,
the word, (love) in marriage without money is just a butter without the bread.
in marriage nowadays money is what strengthens love,
the phrase nowadays is, No Money No Love.
in all truth real love is not suppose to be determined by how much money you have in your bank account but I have found that the reverse is the case, you rearly find a lifetime partner without being a generous spender.
love is defined as pure, faithful, enduring and unconditional, but these qualities don't exist in marriage no more
people are becoming less faithful in marriage, many marriages have been scattered because of lies and dirty secrets kept by either or both partner
endurance and tolerance have been lost in marriages a very long time ago, (I can't keep up with him, if he cannot take care of me)
it has dawn on me that the only condition that can be tolerated by your partner is for your bank account to be in good conditions at all time.
in most part of Africa now, for a man, getting married is like buying a faulty car, you never stop spending
*in Nigeria as a man the moment you get married to a lady, from that moment it has become your responsibility either you like it or not to start catering for your wife's family, that way you stay relevant and keep your respect.
unless of cause you don't want to be respected by your wife's family.
for many guys nowadays they don't respect a women who choose to be a full housewife, not contributing to the family finance,
some men even are dependent and survive only on the income their wife makes
as Important has the word 'love is, it's just all but a matter of lips service in this era, people don't act it in relationships they just say it
if someone tells you nowadays that I love you, it's either they are telling you that they love your money,face,body,intelligence or properties.
really, love in marriage nowadays is just a shadow of its former self, though there is still true love out there somewhere, but good luck finding it
love in marriage without money is incomplete, especially nowadays where there are many bills to pay and many mouths to feed.
Love and money should share a balance in marriage because they are both important to keep a marriage going.
but I would rather I have a filled bank account before having my heart filled with the thought of marriage, trust me it's one of the things that fuels your marriage when love fuel stations goes on strike.
thanks for your time.
Love and money work together. That true bro thanks for sharing
The above is a fact but the truth is there are also people who are self made and have built themselves over the years. I would advise that people who are considering marriage go for those who built capacity before considering marriage and not those who will place a financial burden on them. Both a man and woman whsould complement each other and not one being so much of a burden
The truth is both money and love works hand in hand, you need both to make it work.
Both money and love can't be separated, they are both interwoven. We all need both so as to have a lasting union
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