RE: Sam's Hangout #73- “CHOOSING A PARTNER”
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First on my list is that the person should be God-fearing . As in genuinely God-fearing, not just zealous or pretending to be one.
Secondly, the person should be understanding, able to easily apologize, and willing to accept their mistakes. I want someone I can joke and play with, not a strict and rigid partner. Abeg my home can't be a military zone.. I no get strength to dey explain simple jokes😂😂
Thirdly, I want someone who will motivate and inspire me to achieve greater heights, someone who will celebrate both my little wins and my big achievements. A partner with whom we can grow together.
To answer the second question, what I was willing to compromised then was, "A Good Cook"
Yea I really love guys that can cook. As in cook real good meals. But I was willing to compromised but has fate will have it..
While I was courting my husband, the first day I visited him, omo he arranged one delicious jollof rice😋..
Omo a voice screamed in my head "Girl you've got the full Package"
The three points you listed are indispensable: someone who genuinely loves God, a motivator and and someone with good understanding( not rigid or authoritative).
Cooking? Most men aren't good cooks, it's great that you chose to compromise that particular one.
You must be aiming for a gentleman from the description of the qualities you listed.
Yeah most guys aren't good at cooking but when you meet the one that's good at it,, you will love their meals. I'm lucky to have one as my forever partner, he is the perfect description of a gentleman
Oh wow. That's lovely. Probably he learnt cooking from his mum. Hope I am wrong?
No you aren't wrong
Alright. It is good for mothers to teach both the male and the female children basic chores. It shouldn't be left ONLY for the girl child.
That's the best a mother can do for her child
I concur.
The quickest way to a woman’s heart is through the stomach.😂
😂😂😂it's has been reversed in my case
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Lucky you. Brotherhood is proud of him
😊
It is true that most men can't cook. But my mom used to say something, “better learn how to cook so you'll enjoy life with your wife.”
What your mum said is very true. A male child should learn atleast to how to prepare basic meals.
Exactly.
I learnt in school.
Chakam! Mummy talk am well
Make guy no fit have soft spot like "baby just sit down and watch me. You're on my treat today to eat my food"
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I really need to give her a deep big hug for this 🤗 it is so true.
Everyone in my house knows how to cook both male and female, all kinds of foods including swallow but trust me it's a whole lot of ease because at times you might not return home early or be completely tired to even cook, the males in the house will take over or even do the cooking before arrival.
Lol 😂 why am I having the feelings oga won you over with that delicious meal.
But seriously, these three qualities shouldn't be negotiable.
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There is something she is not telling us.😂
Don't worry, she will still confess lol 😂
She must o.
Na wetin dey mind be this, I just no wan loud am 😂😂😂 Brotherhood is proud of him
The oga na sabi man 😂😂
No doubt
Right on point, it must be truly that o 😜 oya come answer @lecia89
Hehe 😂😂
You sef check am 😂
😂😂😂He had all the qualities I wanted so the food was a plus for me😊
🤗🤗🤗 really it's a good one because to get someone with all the qualities you wanted without any been left out or having to compromise on anything is a great deal. It can only be God, once again congratulations 🎉
Yes o, it can only be God
Of course 💯
😂😂😂😂
God bless that voice ooo
😂😂
Tell us the truth o.😂
😂😂😂😂
Wow. So shall it be.
Amenn oooo.
Yes o
Na food them take catch our sis oooo iyen naa nice
Sweet food.😂
You get it
😋
😂😂😂
Nigerian jollof, please is it smoky too?
You like food sha. Abeg make them serve am with meat ooo I no dey eat fish
I love food o 😋 health first biko
Don't worry double portion of meat for you 😂😂😂
Yipeeee. Thank you
You are welcome 🤗
I strongly agree with the first one. I want my partner to be God-fearing. A family that prays together stays together.
Absolutely true. That's all that matters
I'm glad you agree.
This is very true.
Thank you, Princess.
Please loud it for people at the back to hear 🔊🔊🔊
That’s the full package my dear.
Yeah
This is good. A man who is truly God-fearing will definitely imbibe other qualities, except he is faking it.
You are right about it. A God fearing person has the fruit of the spirit
Most of us guys don't like kitchen duties, getting a guy that can cook is one thing, getting one that is willing to cook is another o... No go loose guide
😂😂 mine is willing to cook, he doesn't have issues with it
As in! Husband material 5001 yards o
5001 ke? Are you joking 🤣 1million yards 💯
Gbam! 😂 It is finished
That's on periodt 💯
😂😂
It's the truth na 😂
😂😂yes o you can say that again
Wow 😮 this are absolutely right points you listed there but you see that second point really needs to be echoed and screamed aloud 💯
And to your last part, na complete full package because it's what you have always wanted and as God will have it, He brought the right one your way. Congratulations 🎉
I love this🥰
It's screaming love all over dearie
Yeah love is a beautiful thing
😂A good cook is very important dear because there will be times where you would be exhausted from work u can't cook, he will be the one to assist u with the cooking that day. All the qualities u listed are really lovely.
Seriously especially when you are sick or pregnant.
I swear