Selamatan - Praying together and sharing food

In my community, we have a tradition called selamatan, rooted in Islamic and local customs. When someone holds an event like a wedding or circumcision, they invite neighbors to pray for their ancestors. After the prayer, guests are served snacks. Before going home, each guest receives a pack of rice with a delicious meal, symbolizing gratitude, sharing, and togetherness within the community.

Around 100 people came, creating a warm and lively gathering. It’s also a chance for people to meet and connect. Attendance is voluntary, so those who cannot come won’t face any punishment or obligation.

The event featured a group of young rebana players who, despite their age, performed impressively. Everyone focused on reciting sholawat to the Prophet Muhammad, accompanied by the rhythmic and uplifting sound of rebana music, creating a heartfelt and spiritual atmosphere throughout the gathering.

The preacher closed the event with a prayer, followed by snack time. Guests enjoyed bakwan, tahu isi (tofu filled with vegetables and fried), and a variety of cakes. Everyone chatted warmly, sharing laughter and stories, making the night joyful and full of togetherness.

The selamatan event finished at 11 p.m. Afterward, I stayed to help clean up the space. As a guest, I received a pack of berkat—rice with vegetables and meat—as a gesture of appreciation.

After everything was done, all the guests went home, bringing their berkat with them. I did the same, feeling happy to be part of the warm and meaningful selamatan tradition that night.