RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIP

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Hello and welcome to another week on Hive where I will be sharing with you on the weekly topic "Red flags in relationship".
Relationship is actually a sweet thing when you're with the right person, it feels like heaven on earth. Now red flags in relationship is actually a sign of warning that talks about the person you're about to bound with, it's also a behaviour one needs to take deep research before considering a relationship.
Some red flags are not always recognised at first because some people tend to act nice at first just to get you up to them which is the part that makes them so dangerous, because the problem tends to grow bigger and become more problematic over time. By being aware of some common red flags, you can you can avoid getting involved in a toxic relationship. When you encounter relationship red flags it's a good time to pause and reflect on the dynamics you really share with that person.

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I have a lot of red flags to consider before I jump into a relationship because relationship is not something you just wake up and jump into without deep investigation. At first I pause and stop when I notice you don't have emotional support to the relationship in terms of understanding my situation and uplifting me as your partner, advice to when I bring out some issues affecting me physically and emotionally. Secondly some partners find it very okay to over control their partners, and then this is where I find it as my red flag I don't really like that over controlling behaviour of a thing. People that try to your movements, decisions, beliefs or where you go and what you wear all the time I always consider them as red flags. Now let look at anger issues.

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In my own perspective I feel unsafe and uncomfortable when someone I want to settle with does not know how to manage her anger.i always see people who can not handle their anger as an intimidation because I'm a soft kind of person. Finally I think everyone should be kind and honest in other to maintain a smooth kind of relationship because our beliefs differs my red flags could not be yours and yours will not be mine. At some point you can change someone you love from their red flags and the would totally learn and stop that behaviour that keeps pisssing you off. Thanks for stopping by I hope you understand that our red flags are not Same.



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Truly, you are right,when you encounter relationship red flags it's a good time to pause and reflect on the dynamics you really share with that person. Profound sir

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Thanks for going through and understanding

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Love is a beautiful thing especially when the feeling is completely mutual but you see this generation, somebody is always a fool and that is why it always ends in tears atleast that's what I've Heard. Anger is bad if you can't control your anger how do we navigate the relationship into a healthy space. Good writeup

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We definitely have to be careful in this generation that we are in. May God help us all

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Soft hearted persons will forever remain intimidated in the midst of wild and angry folks so, it's truly better to settle with who matches your energy...
Thank you for sharing this with us @landlord7

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