Falling Apart
And finally it happened! More than I ever imagined.
You know that feeling when things look like all you could ever ask for or prayed for?
I've had my fair share of imagination and thoughts playing out in reality.
I didn't see it coming, atleast not the way it did or the actual day it happened but it did and I can't seem to get rid of the memory.
I don't want to end up regretting anything and I don't think I would if I don't give room for even more of such.
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What happened? 4 November, 2024
I settled my difference with a friend that I haven't spoken to for a while. I got to learned of the reasons why we fell apart.
And to an extent I knew I messed up too but I didn't expect the reaction from that friend but well it happened anyways.
The reasons for the falling apart and getting upset was valid, at least I've finally met someone who thinks that's a valid thing to be angry about.
Dressed like everything I ever wanted, I hope it will be worth the whole drama and my time too.
We made up, yes we finally made up after weeks of avoiding and ignoring each other and I hope this settlement lasts and we don't get to fall apart like we did
How do you feel when a friend of yours suddenly stops talking to you but wouldn't reach out to you to communicate what the issue is?
I truly understand because I had a similar experience while at the university when a friend I was so close to gave me a cold shoulder and it was so noticeable to my classmates. We never had any issues as clearly as I could recall, I even made some attempts to find out what was wrong but he never paid attention nor answered me. The bond we once shared eventually dissipated, and one year later, he came back, but it was too late to arouse the embers of love that had already died. It's not good to hold unnecessary and prolonged grudges against a friend.
You did reach out to him but he didn't want to engage the situation and make amends, that's understandable and so it is okay you moved on.
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