The unfolding

Sometimes I look at my life and how I have changed in certain habits and behaviours compared to how I was when I was younger. I smile at the positive side while I also regret the negative side, especially how I didn't pick up earlier, the changes I'm experiencing now on time.

That's where change comes into play. According to the common sentence we've become very fond of, "change is constant." It is something in a man's life that's not stable, but very stable in its occurrence. You get that? Change(unstable happenings) that occur regularly.

There are a lot of things I have outgrown and changes I have experienced in my life, and they're just natural. I don't fight them, even though some of them appear unacceptable to a lot of people.

Back then, I believed so much in some church doctrines that I later found out—or let me say, I saw—their less relevant, and I had to drop them.

I'm someone who wasn't cultured in the religious way by my parents. No, I did that by myself because my parents weren't really the deeply religious type. I was so into church that I believed that once I was in the house of God, everything would automatically work, even without me doing any type of work.
Is going to church regularly bad? No. But doing it excessively, and doing it without working to earn something, can be seen as something weird (I didn't want to use an offensive word). That was actually my situation, even though I was just a boy back then.

As I grew up, I saw that there's a great need for someone to work and earn money while they worship and believe in God.
Does it mean that I no longer go to church? No. I'm still very steadily serving God in church. My friends who know me—even down to my WhatsApp line—know how I appear. But the thing is, I have now applied wisdom. There's a time for church, and there's a time for work.

This is what I call growth and change. When we reach a certain stage, some things appear more realistic, and we have no option but to adjust (change) in order to live better.

Thanks for reading.

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