LIVING A NEW LIFE OF A MINIMALIST

Being in a relationship with a partner that is so disorganize is the most difficult thing to do. Because no matter how you arrange and keep things in order he will still scatter it especially when he is searching for something he wouldn't mind the stress you've gone through to put everything in place.

I remember back then when I was still in the university I have a friend who volunteered to take me tutorials on Stat 200 cause I wasn't good in mathematics. So I decided to visit him because he was staying off campus. When I got to his apartment it was so disorganized i didn't say a word at first cause he was living together with his friends.

As time passes by he later asked me to date him which I accepted reason been that he is focused and intelligent. And then since we were in a relationship, he needed privacy so he rented his own apartment.

So I decided to visit him during the weekend when I got to his house, the whole room was scattered and unkept.
It would have been more better if after scattering the whole place he rearrange it back properly but instead he will just leave it like that.

I had to arrange the whole place cause am a kind of person that can't stand a scattered or disorganized place.

Each time we are together in his apartment, I ensure he joins me to keep the house tidy. With that, he started learning how to keep the house organized gradually.

He is someone who spends lavishly cause his family is comfortable and well to do and he also love to eat out. Whenever he is hungry he goes straight to eatery.

Each time am hungry he will want us to go to a restaurant to eat but am a kind of person that likes a simple life style and I don't like eating out I prefer homemade food. So I decided to advise him to get a table fridge which he bought.

Each time I go to his house on weekends, I prepare different soups and put it in the fridge whenever he is famished he microwave and eat.

Gradually gradually he reduced the rate at which he eats out and spend unnecessarily with that he was able to have some savings.

He is so happy we met each other and that he now have savings and spends less.Am happy I was able to bring out a better version of himself. His parents were so happy that I was able to change their son. This now made me and his mum become close.

He now keeps the house tidy and well arranged. With this change, I can boldly come home with my friends at any time cause he arrange and keep the house organized.

For this reason,he now ask me for advice on anything he is not sure about.

Am so glad I was able to change him from being a maximalist to minimalist.

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