What do I miss from my childhood and why?

The word child comes to mind as soon as it rings in the ears. Because it is said that children are as sacred as flowers. And when I remember that childhood or childhood, some unknown love arises in my mind. Here I am going back to my childhood and will try to discuss some childhood memories or what I missed and and why. I hope you like it.

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My son and daughter both asked to be photographed and stood in front of the camera smiling.

To be honest, the thing I missed the most since childhood was freedom. Because our parents always tried to keep me under a certain discipline. Although I respected their discipline and still do. Because every parent should do this, but then I missed my freedom because I saw how my friends were able to do other things freely, go anywhere or hang out at night or at any time, but I could never do that. Of course, there is a reason behind this. My parents wanted me not to mix with everyone, especially those who are bad or addicted to drugs or naughty boys in the society. To be honest, even though we live in a rural area, there are some boys who are absolutely bad or addicted to drugs. Many people get drawn into bad things when they come into contact with them. So my parents always tried to keep me in their sights.

Although this is right from their side. Because every parent thinks about the future of their child and it is the responsibility and duty of every parent to keep track of where, with whom and how they are mixing. Anyway, I have mixed with few people since childhood and that is why I am very much an introvert. Even this nature has not changed yet. I cannot mix with many people very easily despite my best efforts because I have been like this since childhood. To be honest, the number of my friends is also very limited. I have been with some specific friends since childhood and even after growing up, it is still limited. Although the situation has changed a lot compared to the past, even when I have become a parent now, I also try not to mix with all the children outside. Because not all the children outside are the same because except for some children, their language or behavior is completely different. However, I want to give my children as much freedom as they can become good in the future but I do not want to give them so much freedom that freedom leads them to bad things. Because I missed this very much since childhood, so I will try to keep an eye on it so that my children do not miss it.



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Although it is understandable why parents is strict to their child, but for the young us, that is like more of punishment no esp we only seek freedom. I remember a lot of moments in my life where my mom is so strict to me. I really hated it back then. But now that we're old, we can finally understand no. And now we may also become a strict parent to our child ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

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Only when we have children do we understand why our parents didn't give us the freedom we wanted as children. It's a great thing we should be very grateful to our parents for. It was a pleasure reading your post. Best regards. 😊

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It's true that we don't understand it at the time, but when we become parents, we feel it. Thank you very much.

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