The things that makes me angry.

We’re human, and no matter how we try to keep our emotions in check, there are still some things that just push our buttons and make us angry. Even the calmest person has their limits, and there are situations where you can’t help but react. For me, there are a lot of things that make me angry, but two, in particular, stand out: when someone uses personal information against me and when I’m lied against.

The first one really cuts deep because it feels like betrayal. There was a time I used to be so open with people I considered close. If I felt comfortable around you, I wouldn’t hesitate to share personal stories or details about my life. I believed that’s what friends do—we talk, we connect, we trust. But one incident completely changed my perspective.

I remember gisting with my roommates one day. We were just talking about random things, laughing, and sharing bits about our lives. I was feeling relaxed abd then i opened up to them about something personal: how I hadn’t seen my dad in years because he left my mom to be with another woman. It was a tough part of my life, but I trusted them enough to share it. For a while, everything seemed fine—until one heated argument with one of my roommates changed everything.

During our argument, in the middle of his frustration, he just said “That’s why your dad abandoned you and your mom.” Those words hit me like a punch in the gut. I was shocked, hurt, and furious all at once. How could someone I trusted throw something so personal in my face just to win an argument? I didn’t hold back; I lashed out and said harsh words to him, not caring how they landed and the situation almost turned into a physical altercation. At that moment, I was too angry to even think clearly.

To be honest, I was grateful for that experience because it taught me that not everyone deserves to know your story. Since then, I’ve kept my personal life to myself. It’s sad that it had to come to this, but it’s a form of protection. You never really know how people will use the things you tell them, so sometimes, it’s best to keep your cards close to your chest.

The second thing that drives me mad is being lied against. I can tolerate a lot, but being falsely accused of something I didn’t do? That’s where I draw the line. It’s such a helpless feeling because no matter what you say, some people won’t believe you.

I remember a situation in my hostel where a student was accused of stealing. It became a huge issue that has was reprimanded by school authorities. Alot of people were just saying he took something that wasn’t his. He was so frustrated and ashamed that he broke down in tears. He was later found innocent but had already gone through several humiliation. That situation actually made me realize how dangerous false accusations can be. They can ruin someone’s reputation, peace of mind, and even their relationships.

I’ve had my own part in this as well. When someone lies against me, I feel this sense of anger and disbelief. It’s like my entire being is rejecting the situation. I hate the idea of being blamed for something I didn’t do—it’s unfair, and it’s infuriating. If a friend ever lied against me, I honestly don’t think I could forgive them. It’s one of those things that i can't tolerate and would simply end a relationship for me, no matter how close we were. Trust is fragile, and once it’s broken, there’s just no going back.

These experiences have shaped how I interact with others. I have become more cautious about the people I open up to, and I’ve learned to value honesty above all else. It’s not always easy, but it’s necessary for my peace of mind. At the end of the day, I would rather have a small circle of genuine people than deal with the pain of betrayal and lies.

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