There are different ways of reacting and handling some of the most difficult issues in life, sometimes we live to share them with our close circle consciously or unconsciously hoping that someone would provide the answer to the problem on ground but then it is not everyone that has this kind of circle that they can speak to just to ease the burden they are carrying but then what do we think 🤔 could be the cause of this?

Some people tend to be introverted even when it comes to problems that they know could easily hurt them if left unattended to but these kinds of people have the notion that it is better to solve their problems on their own rather than share with anyone while others are having problems that they feel would hurt their close circle if they find out because the problem is self caused.

I think i have been on different side of this in life cause at one point when I was young I found it difficult to share anything at home like when any problem arose in school and this was mostly my fault cause I got into a lot of trouble as a kid due to the kinds of friends I had surrounded myself with so approaching my dad was an almighty task the trust was really cut off that any time I got into trouble my dad would give me the I knew you would never listen look, that made it difficult to actually communicate with anyone at home but then when I got to realize it was more of my fault than anyone else's fault I began to adjust and now I can actually talk to anyone when I am in a situation that needs help from anyone.

The bond is what matters when it comes to things like this and my elder sister who is the third in the family tends to understand things from my perspective more than anyone else do because I admit I can be weird with some of my decisions sometimes but even at that she always sticks with me.

When I applied to go to the university I came home and told everyone my decision was to study physics 🤣 everyone felt like why physics of all courses she also had a talk with me to know if I knew what I was sticking my head into and how difficult it was and when I said I knew what I was doing she just backed me up even when I wasn't 😃 sure my self, her support was gargantuan all through my time in school.

I don't hesitate to share my problems with her cause I know that she would give me the support and advise I wouldn't get anywhere irrespective of how stupid it might look at some point.

Shout-out to her 🎉 it's an amazing feeling having you as a sister

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