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I was chatting with my boss daughter and she was seriously talking about her boyfriend.
She was just free and open with the whole situation, this is a child that is 15 years old oo

The things she talked about were interesting and cool, showing she is exposed and well trained.

From the whole story, the young guy who just turned 18 years old was just her male friend, whom she is close to.
Both parents know about their kids and able to put them on track.

From what she said, their parents made it clear to them that they are still young and tender, so they are just friends who spends time together.

The part that made me laugh was when she said that her mummy told her that they are practically siblings but she knows well that he isn't his brother.
But she surely understands what her mummy mean.

She just enjoys communicating with her male friend nothing more.
She didn't waste time to report to her mummy that her male friend asked her to hug him.
Which made the parents to place a restrict order between them.

The whole situation with this two young teens interested me a lot, because I love how their parents are going about the whole thing.

We growing up then, you dare not talk,act or know who a boy is.

This restriction didn't help because it is something which is inevitable and they didn't explain the whole thing.
Which could have brought openness and orderliness.

Teens tend to do what they are warned not to do without further explanation.

Even as old as I am now, I feels somehow to talk about a male friend with both my parents and siblings.
I am glad I didn't really make mistakes with boys growing up.

But in most cases, when parents neglect this and place strictness, it would hinder their children from opening up which will end up with them doing what they feel like doing which is actually the wrong thing.

I don't know about other countries but in my country.
I think it's of recent that this matter is being worked on to being better.

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Do have a blessed month.

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Such relationship between she and her parents is truly admirable.

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Such relationship are always admirable but it's need proper caution from the both parents .
We Nigerians are extremely careful with our teens.

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True.
They are already taking preventive measures.

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My mom would say" boys should have boys as friends and girls with girls" that relationship was never encouraged.
I guess it helped us by knowing our limits.
The both parents should set boundaries for them before they make mistakes.

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That's true.
Thank you very much dear for sharing your view.

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